Things you should throw away immediately. Old things and clothes - throw away or give away? How to take energy out of old things

We continue to put things in order together with the author of the book Happy at Home. Last time we discussed, and force yourself to throw out the unnecessary. Today, here is a list of things that are usually the first to be thrown away.

When I know exactly where to find what I need, and can easily put a letter in a folder and a towel on a shelf, I get a pleasant (if illusory) feeling of complete control over my life. Getting rid of junk makes life easier. When a friend says, “I sorted through our closets, and it seems to me that I lost five kilos,” I know exactly how she feels.

junk formula

In progress cleaning using the “shelf by shelf” method, I was able to derive a formula for the appearance of trash in the house. It became easy for me to identify and eliminate problematic items. Here is a rough list of the first things to leave your home.

  • "Cute" kitchen utensils that work no one knows how.
  • Broken things. Well, why can't we admit that the thing is broken - a burnt toaster, a cracked vase, three umbrellas with holes in them, etc.?
  • Things that seem potentially useful but are not being used are an oversized water container or a complex corkscrew. Or duplicates - well, how many glass jars we need?
  • Things you want to save. Well, why do you need a pretty shower gel if you never use it? Why "save" the bright tin trays inherited from the grandmother? A friend once gloomily confessed to me: “I saved expensive truffle oil for so long that it went bad.” After spending money, use what you bought, and then throw it away.
  • Items that should have been used but were not used due to reluctance or laziness. A few years ago I bought a digital voice recorder - I was going to do an interview. But something did not work out, and the recorder was not useful. And the expensive exercise equipment my girlfriends bought that gather dust and take up space?..
  • Things that should have been thrown away a long time ago. Fortunately, there was no place in our apartment to store such things: no attic, no pantry, no utility room - only part of the basement, where we kept Christmas tree decorations, spare filters for the air conditioner and several high chairs. We didn't even have a garage, which many people use as a home storage. According to the Department of Energy, 25% of Americans with two-car garages don't park their cars at all.
  • Items that ended up in the house according to the "grandmother's right". Grandmothers always have their own rules about what our children Eliza and Elinor need. My mother-in-law never buys anything new for herself, but gives the girls solar-powered prisms, sets of miniature colored pencils and all that. All these things are funny, but gradually the apartment becomes littered with them.
  • Things we never used. It's time to get rid of the rice cooker I gave my husband for his birthday. He loves to cook, but he continues to cook rice in an old pot.

Throw away or organize?

Accumulation is expensive in every way. Possession takes time, space and energy. And sometime you will have to decide how to get rid of this property.

I told a friend about my shelf-by-shelf approach.

“I know that feeling,” she nodded. My apartment is full of rubbish. (True. I know for sure that she has real warehouses in three states: in the city where she grew up, where her grandmother lived, and another 40 minutes from her apartment.)

“I need to deal with all this, too,” added a friend.

- No, just don't get it! I exclaimed. "Don't think about organizing this junk!"

And then I stopped. I didn't mean to be rude to my friend.

- What are you talking about? she wondered. You saw my apartment. I really need to organize everything properly.

“Well,” I said carefully, “try to get rid of everything unnecessary first. And then you don't have to organize.

- Like this? my friend asked suspiciously.

- Unnecessary papers can be thrown away, and not put in folders. Give the clothes you never wear to charitable organization, and you will not need to look for a place in the closet for it!

“No, I use almost everything,” the friend objected. I don't have to throw away much. I just need to buy a few things to better organize everything.

I couldn't find anything to say. I noticed that people experiencing the most big problems with junk, most often they buy intricate hangers, furniture with convenient drawers and colored plastic boxes. The organization of property can be very useful - if, of course, it streamlines the necessary, and does not contribute to the accumulation of junk.

As I dismantled shelf after shelf, I mentally answered a lot of questions. Do we use these things? Do we love them? And I felt a big difference between what we do not use and useless. Eliza no longer wears her animal rubber stamps, and I don't wear the bright vintage hats my mom gave me. We have a lot of things that are dear to us that we do not use. I wanted my home to be filled with things that had a symbolic and sentimental value, not just a practical one. Unlike a broken crepe maker, they always have a place in my house.

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Discussion

I also quite easily part with things, if a thing has not been touched for some long time, then you can part with it without problems, which means it is not needed.

Once every half a year I get rid of things, etc. (usually I endure to trash cans in bags where the size of shoes / clothes is written) they are quickly taken away. Well, if things are good, then you can give them through ads for juice or rubles for 100 (if there are a lot of things) people also take them. But damn it's so pitiful to part with every little thing)))))))))))) it seems to me - from this you can do something, then cut it off there to sew / alter)))))))))))) ) I noticed one thing --- when I unload it becomes easier to breathe NOOOO immediately thinking in my head --- well, now you can buy something else, the place is free!))))))))))))))) And more. ....... maniacal spontaneous purchases are all the fucking world of consumption... We are forced to throw away things (although they will serve us for a long time) and buy more and more..... Be vigilant comrades!!! It's hard but... hold on!

16.10.2016 12:02:16, elit.tigra1

I myself easily part with unnecessary, in my opinion, things, but my husband does not. In his opinion, everything is useful. We agreed that I put the unnecessary in a box and on the balcony for six months, if during this period they are not in demand, then we get rid of them.

My friend says that if she doesn't use something for a year, then it's time to throw it away)

oh, don’t feed me bread, let me throw out junk stuff)) however, sometimes after that exactly what was lying around all the time turns out to be a very necessary thing)))))

I sort through all things and papers from time to time. I throw something away almost every time. I don't like hoarding rubbish.

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Housing is a special place that is saturated with the energy of the owners. Kitchen utensils, furniture, clothes, various souvenirs, gifts and plants - all this is not only a way of life, but also in the complex constitutes the "mood" of the house. But it happens that an apartment or a house is burdensome, makes you feel spiritual emptiness, despondency and irritation. In this case, housing can be removed. However, being in it becomes extremely uncomfortable.

It's all about the energy of the house and the presence of things that a priori should not be in the home.

If you want to make living in a house or apartment enjoyable, then you definitely need to know what objects and why can accumulate negativity, affecting its residents in a not the best way. We provide you with a list of things to get rid of right now. Certainly, we are talking not about obvious garbage. Rather, about the one that is customary to justify "it will come in handy somehow."

Bottles and waste paper

Each dwelling accumulates various kinds of unnecessary things: bottles, shopping bags, bags, etc.. All this "good" eventually begins to burden the inhabitants of the house. They are pursued by failures, overcomes Bad mood and even depression.

Old magazines, newspapers, booklets and advertisements- all this clutters up not only your home, but also internal state. The same applies to bottles (glass or plastic). Their storage on the balcony or in closets does not allow the energy of the house to circulate normally.

In addition, you should definitely get rid of old checks, papers, notebooks with unnecessary entries and other small, barely noticeable, but littering your home garbage.

According to Feng Shui, waste paper that collects dust and empty, unused bottles attract poverty and quarrels.

Get rid of this garbage as soon as possible.

Old shoes, bags and clothes

It is, of course, difficult to get rid of your favorite jeans darned more than once or sneakers worn to holes. But it's definitely worth doing. Every item has its own lifespan. Do not take clothes, accessories and shoes seriously. If it’s a pity to throw it in a landfill, then take it to a thrift store, where they will get a second life and delight new owners.

Remember that old clothes tend to accumulate the negative that a person faces every day: conflicts in the store line, unpleasant looks in the subway, or a quarrel with a grandmother at the entrance.

All this evil things "remember".

If you do not want to pull a heap of unpleasant sensations from the past, then you should definitely update your wardrobe with new things regularly.

Houseplants

Living in metropolitan areas, we are drawn to flora And fresh air, therefore, we have a habit of making window sills of dwellings as thick as possible with flower pots. However, thoughtless landscaping can bring into the house not only negative energy, but also diseases.

It is worth understanding which plants will become real helpers, and which ones will bring grief to the house.

  • Feather or reed. These plants become a real magnet for serious illnesses and even death.
  • If you do not want that there were quarrels and strife in your house, then do not start loaches in your home.

The exception is grapes, which, on the contrary, attract abundance and good luck to the house.

  • Do not forget to remove spruce trees and branches that are customary to put on new year holidays. This plant radiates grave energy.
  • Discard wilted bouquets immediately. They have fulfilled their purpose.

Ideal plants for the home will be:

  • Flowers with rounded leaves.
  • Plants whose leaves stretch and grow upwards.
  • Plants with masculine Yang energy: lemon, chlorophytum, dracaena, sansevier and asparagus;
  • Plants with feminine Yin energy: money tree, violet, begonia and cyclamen;

Remember: to create an ideal energy microclimate in the house, it is necessary that both plants with male Yang energy and flowers with female Yin energy be present in the home.

Kitchenware

Kitchen utensils are a kind of symbol of the house and the family that lives in it. Dishes broken in a fit of anger or accidentally become a store of negative and destructive energy.

cracked or broken plate, a bowl or saucer should not be kept in a dwelling, so as not to attract destructive energy.

Do not hesitate for a minute, and remove rusty knives from the house.

A damaged knife blade is able to collect all the negativity at home.

If a person picks up or cuts himself with such an object, he risks letting bad energy into himself.

Mirrors

As for the mirror, it in itself is a kind of window into the other world. It is used to carry out various magical rituals. And when a person dies in the house, it is customary to close the mirrors at all, because in them you can see the wandering soul of the deceased.

If there is a broken mirror in the house, then do not be surprised at failures and illnesses.

Feng Shui experts say that such a thing not only stores all the negative energy of those people who looked into it, but also begins to release all the bad things out when the mirror cracks.

Photos and paintings

Of course, today it is fashionable to hang art-house photos or paintings by contemporary artists on the walls, which depict creative stories. The main thing is that these stories do not carry negativity.

Remember that the message that puts pressure on the psyche can be hidden.

For example, negative energy and despondency may well be broadcast by a picture with trees fallen to the ground or photographs with military stories. You will not realize, but such pictures act extremely badly on the psyche.

Do not keep at home photos and portraits with your image that have deteriorated. According to Feng Shui, this means attracting family strife and the destruction of friendship into your life.

If there are photographs of deceased relatives and close people in your house, then be sure to store these pictures separately from other photos.

Gifts from ill-wishers

Sometimes you have to accept presents from people who are completely uninteresting to us or cause negative emotions. Without thinking about the consequences, we accept gifts, and then store them at home, forgetting with what energy overtones these things were presented.

  • It is not recommended to accept a mirror as a gift from an enemy. Especially to keep such a gift at home. By accepting such a present, you run the risk of "giving away" your vitality and beauty to your giver.
  • Esotericists warn that gloves are also not a gift worth accepting. Whether it is mittens that protect against the cold or options for decorative gloves, such a gift will not bring good into your life. Through such a present, the giver can easily penetrate your life and begin to manage it. If your home has such gloves, but you do not wear them, it is better to get rid of them.
  • Malachite products are a bad gift. This mineral transmits the energy of destruction. Giving such a gift, your enemy can take away your destiny, and you will not live your own life.
  • Another present from an enemy that cannot be kept in the house is pectoral cross. Together with him, the donor can easily transfer a lot of negative energy to you.
  • Among the gifts that you should not accept and then keep in the house or wear on yourself, Feng Shui experts distinguish piercing and cutting objects. Sabers, knives, cleavers or daggers around the addressee can create a negative aura that provokes crimes.

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You have to get rid of the old one. Neat and careful people manage to keep kitchen utensils in perfect order for quite some time. Their dishes rarely break, forks never bend, pots and pans never burn. Sometimes all this set of necessary things just starts to bother them. Therefore, dishes that have lingered in the kitchen for too long must be broken forcibly or helped to get lost. Especially if a crack or notch appeared on the plate, if the cup lost its pair and was left without a saucer. Don't go shopping for new plastic pot handles to replace them. In the wardrobe, too, it is necessary to periodically conduct an "inventory". Things that have become too big or, conversely, small, that have been unsuccessfully washed or accidentally torn, the clothes of grown children - all this needs to be torn, given away or disposed of. There will definitely be a person who will find a more worthy use for these things. While all this will be stored, waiting for repairs, fashion will “beep” in a different way. And with her you need to run in step, managing to update your wardrobe. But the abundance of unnecessary things does not allow you to do this recklessly. As always, there is nowhere to fold and nothing to wear. And for someone, a stack of these things can be a real gift, the very renewal that will be carried out in their own home.

Several compelling reasons

Logic dictates that new acquisitions are more likely when a person needs something. Therefore, the old must be disposed of, making room for the new. As soon as it disappears old thing, so another one will be bought immediately, unless, of course, it is really needed. So, accidentally and unexpectedly, a test will be carried out that reveals the need for this very thing. It may happen that it is no longer needed. There is a wise saying that tells unreasonable "buns" that until the old leaves, the new will not come. Change is moving forward. And preferably without looking back. And if you touch a little superstition and mysticism, then you can remember the Almighty, who supposedly does not help change life for the better. He simply does not see a lack, does not see an empty corner where manna from heaven can be thrown. Old things are rubbish and garbage that do not occupy their place. They don't add any life-giving energy, positive emotions, but, on the contrary, inhibit all life processes. Because of their accumulation in life, no changes and updates occur. Carefully storing all junk, people try to save themselves from problems in the future, thinking about a possible lack of money, but forgetting that thought is material. Why program yourself for problems? Poverty and poverty will haunt a person until he learns to throw everything unnecessary out of his life without regret, until he learns to easily and simply renew everything around him. Old things, like anchors of the past, are pulled to the bottom. The music of the past is good, it's nostalgia. And old perfumes, trousers and jugs are bad. This is programming yourself for life without change. Every thing from the past brings back some memories, makes you look back. And this is dangerous, you can’t go back to the past, you can skip the future. We must ruthlessly and irrevocably smash, tear, give away, dispose of. Anything should be done with old things, but just do not store, do not clog mezzanines, suitcases, boxes with rubbish, which will certainly be sent for subsequent storage in a garage or basement.

Life has become boring, monotonous, luck is not on your side, financial problems have appeared or you cannot meet your soul mate? In this case, take a look around: if at home you are surrounded by old things that have not been used for a long time, but, as a rule, it’s a pity to throw them away, then this may be the reason for all the failures.

Very often, in order to let something new into the house, you just need to get rid of the old. Do you want to learn how to throw away old things in order to attract new and good things into your life? Then read our post today!

Why you need to periodically throw away old things

According to Feng Shui, old things littering the house prevent the free circulation of qi energy, as a result, energy blocks are created both in the house itself and in its residents. That is why there is a feeling of poor health, failures, dissatisfaction with oneself and one's life. In such a house, one does not want to do anything, apathy, laziness manifests itself, it is even difficult to breathe in it, and things seem to put pressure on the brain, provoking the appearance of negative thoughts.

Ideally, qi energy should look into every corner of the house, filling it and the people living in it with new vitality, giving happiness, health, peace of mind, financial well-being. When all the corners are occupied by some kind of rubbish or unnecessary things, then the energy does not even get into these places. One has only to take and throw away something from old things, as the situation begins to change.

How to get rid of old things: where to start

As a rule, throwing away old things starts with cabinets, but no one bothers to start, for example, with “cleaning out” a balcony, loggia, pantry. Better yet, first get rid of unnecessary bulky things, for example, a worn-out soft sofa or a crumbling chest of drawers, which no one will repair. In addition, bed bugs and other insects that are dangerous to humans can live in old upholstered furniture. So let's get started...

Balconies and loggias

On the balcony, find all the rubbish that was folded in case it “suddenly comes in handy,” but for six months, a year or more, you didn’t even touch it. See what's hidden in boxes, old suitcases and chests - there's probably something to throw away, too, if not all! By the way, if you don’t need a suitcase either, then you can also safely throw it away, the only exceptions can be those suitcases that can be used for interior decoration.

What else from the unnecessary can be found on the balcony? Look for junk in tool boxes, as a rule, there may be some parts that you planned to “return” to the place, fix something, but never did, especially if that thing is no longer used, the part from which is stored.

In general, a balcony or a loggia is best used not for storing seasonal items or unnecessary trash, but as a place to relax, or to equip a greenhouse there, a winter garden.

Pantry

This is another place that can be simply littered with rubbish. If you decide to throw away old things, then you need to start looking for them in the pantry.

Feel free to throw away broken equipment stored in the pantry, for example, an old blender or vacuum cleaner, which you will no longer repair, but kept in case “what if I decide”.

If food is stored in a pantry room or closet, they need to be checked for freshness: old preservation can be safely thrown away; you also need to check bulk products and make sure that “living creatures” do not start in them; there is no place for rotten vegetables.

Take away everything that you do not use, repair shelves, cabinets, doors if they are broken somewhere, glue torn wallpaper, refresh the walls and the closet door with new paint. The pantry after such cleaning must be ventilated.

Cabinets and drawers

There is probably nothing harder than throwing away clothes and shoes, especially if they really suit you, still like it or remind you of some event. Clothes and shoes, like no other things, “remember” your energy, therefore, before throwing old things out of the closets, wash and dry them, wipe the shoes with a damp cloth. Things that are no longer suitable for anything are even advised to be burned. Everything old that has accumulated on things, especially bad things, should neither return to you nor pass on to others. Therefore - either wash away or destroy!

You have probably already heard that you need to throw away things that have not been worn for six months, but here everything is individual, depending on the situation or at your discretion. You can throw away everything old in one fell swoop, but it happens that your hand does not rise, then the way out will be to learn how to throw away old things one at a time, gradually, day after day ...

In addition to wardrobes, also check chests of drawers, ottomans, sofas and beds with drawers. What is stored in the built-in storage boxes in your bed? If these are bedding, then everything is in order, but if there are “trunks” with old things, throw them away mercilessly!

There are a lot of small drawers in furniture sets for the hallway, in children's walls and even in bedside tables. They need to be checked for any unnecessary trifles: checks, receipts, loose-leaf records, old magazines and newspapers, broken pencils or discarded pens, etc. Do you still feel sorry for throwing away all these old things? Believe me, without them your life will be better!

Kitchen

Another place to accumulate unnecessary things in an apartment or house is the kitchen. Here's how to get rid of junk in the kitchen:

  • First of all, you need to find all the chipped dishes, plates or cups with cracks, teapots and sugar bowls with broken handles - we shamelessly throw all this into the trash, without regret.
  • Old, unnecessary and terrible utensils that you have not used for a long time are also waiting to be thrown away.
  • Next, you need to throw away the worn-out kitchen textiles - towels, potholders, apron, replacing it all with new and clean ones.
  • Walk through the lockers where bulk products, cereals are stored, clean everything and put things in order.
  • Remove everything from kitchen cabinets that does not belong there.
  • Check cutlery, kitchen gadgets and all sorts of appliances. Feel free to throw away all those who have lost their appearance, lost their functionality, broke down or tritely require replacement.

Also, clean your kitchen regularly and throw away unnecessary things every time to keep it as spacious, fresh and clean as possible.

What things should not be thrown away

  • antiques that cost decent money;
  • things in good condition that can be sold;
  • things from which you can make crafts, interior decor (provided that you really do this, and not just dream of starting);
  • things that will be useful in the country (here without fanaticism, so that EVERYTHING is not accidentally useful!);
  • children's things and toys that can be passed on to someone “by inheritance”.

Many people really need to learn how to throw away old things without hesitation and not be sorry. Sometimes it is very difficult, but the result is worth it! When we get rid of the old, something new will certainly come into our life, and it will certainly be pure and positive. Good luck getting rid of the trash!

School notebooks, worn jeans, long-used and dusty players and phones. According to psychologists, everything that we do not use longer than a year, automatically turns into trash. Which, by the way, programs us for poverty. But is it so easy to get rid of junk?

the site found five reasons that make us keep old things, and figured out how to force ourselves to sort out household rubble.

1. Because we tend to be frugal.

Is the dress out of fashion? Are your favorite sneakers torn? Broken laptop? Approximately 88 percent of Russians do not know how to part with old and unnecessary things. We store clothes and shoes, magazines and books, toys, postcards, appliances and much more that we don’t use at all.

Pathological frugality, experts say, is in Russian blood. It is hard for our grandparents, who grew up in the war and post-war years, to throw things away - because of the poverty they experienced and the fear of being left with nothing, they put aside all sorts of things for a "rainy day" all their lives. Hence - endless five-liter cans, bags in bags, broken skis and other rubbish, which to this day is neatly stored by our compatriots on balconies, mezzanines and cottages.

Of course, being thrifty is good, but still, the next time you send holey sweaters, cracked plates and the remains of a laminate to the back of a closet or balcony, think about it: are you turning into Gogol's Plushkin?

syllogomania, pathological hoarding, or Plushkin's syndrome is a disorder in which a person experiences a passion for collecting and storing things. Clothes, books, household utensils and other items are not used, but only accumulated.

It is difficult for a person suffering from syllogomania to throw away trash (even the smallest one). Sometimes it doesn’t work at all - he is too reverent about his junk.

Northern peoples who are in unfavorable climatic conditions, prone to certain kind materialism: we store food. This is a tradition on which the well-being of our ancestors depended for centuries during the long winter. So even now, we, the descendants, feel more comfortable if the refrigerator is full of dumplings and other products with a long shelf life.

In addition, our country difficult story: Throughout the 20th century, millions of families suffered from hunger and poverty. This still affects: it is more difficult for us to throw things away, especially food. For example, the United States has never participated in defensive wars on its territory, they have a different history, and therefore the attitude towards things is easier: bought - tired - threw it away. And we're scared.

Meanwhile, materialism can be both a manifestation of character traits and a mental pathology. The line is thin, but in any case it is incorrect to say that materialism leads to psychological ill health. After all, it cannot be said that nausea is the cause of poisoning. On the contrary, poisoning leads to nausea.

Irina Solovieva

psychologist

2. Because they will definitely come in handy someday.

Uncomfortable shoes on high heels, jeans "when I lose weight" and five old "cots" in case the iPhone breaks. We do not throw away dozens of obsolete things just because we stubbornly hope to use them again someday.

In fact, having lost weight, you would rather buy new jeans than put on those that have been lying on the far shelf of the closet for several years - by that time they may simply go out of fashion. And for shoes purchased only because of beauty, there will surely be an equally attractive, but comfortable alternative. Do not be fooled: things that have not been used for years will never be needed again.

The same applies to books. If you have a multi-volume book of Marx and Bolshoi soviet encyclopedia, which you are not going to read, it is better to take them to the library. Don't clutter up your home if you don't have a dedicated room for books: keep only those titles that you like to re-read and that you need for work and study.

By the way, psychologists say that attachment to old things programs us for poverty. Allowing yourself to leave a torn blouse for a rainy day, you instantly bring its offensive closer - assuming that such a day will come and you really have to walk in a tattered pullover.

In general, it’s good to take it once a month and look at what surrounds you - clothes, some books, notes. You need to understand how much all this is necessary right now: whether these things feed your self-esteem or not.

Surely there are things in the closet that do not suit you in this moment, do not relate to your personality. You may have bought some of them when you were not feeling very well. Because of some, you have already "grown up". Or maybe you have books that have already outlived their usefulness. You need to get rid of all this.

The situation when you open a closet, and clothes fall out from there, can cause psychological inconvenience. There is a feeling that you have a lot of things, but nothing really needed. It's not clear what you want. This can lead to helplessness and insecurity.

Vera Joyful

psychologist, art therapist

3. Because they are reminiscent of the past.

Russian notebooks, diaries, notes, dried roses, old tickets for concerts, planes and trains - all this, of course, contains many stories. Such things represent entire epochs of our lives - school years, past relationships, perfect travels.

There is nothing wrong with remembering the past - put your favorite papers and trinkets in a box and put it under the bed or on the closet. Just don't overdo it: there's no need to keep a bunch of T-shirts left ex-girlfriend, endless teddy bears"from fans" and dozens of old copybooks and student lectures.

Keeping flared jeans, a checkered jacket and DC sneakers in the closet also does not make sense. After all, you probably still have photos of the times when you wore them. Do you really want to fill your apartment with things that have already served their purpose?

Veshchizm can be formed as an attempt to keep something in your life, to save. For example, it can develop after the loss of a loved one or in the event of separation. Or maybe an aging woman is trying to keep her youth in this way - naturally, unconsciously.

In some cases, you can deal with materialism on your own. The main thing is to understand what exactly you are trying to fill in such a symbolic form, what you really lack. What you really don't want to part with. You should still find the strength to let it go from life. If you cannot do this on your own, you can seek psychological help.

Irina Solovieva

psychologist

4. Because someone once gave them

Many people are really tormented by the need to get rid of things that were once donated by acquaintances. Bulky figurine eiffel tower, a clumsy candle stand, a belt that you have never worn and never will ... Do you even remember who gave it to you and when?

Feel free to clear the house of such things: hardly close person could give something that you will never use. And if a friend was not close, then why are you afraid to hurt - even mentally - his feelings?

5. Because they feel sorry for them

Yes, you do not need this little porcelain horse at all. But he was bought in the year of the Horse - that is, in your year! Surely the figurine brings good luck. And anyway, does a tiny bauble take up a lot of space?

The 1992 Cosmopolitan binder came from your aunt, but you collected all the 2002 issues of Snob yourself. Of course, they should not be thrown away: after all, they are dusty, but such a living personification of bygone days. Take out an old wooden chair, too, the hand does not rise. It is by sitting on it that you student years pored over term papers and spent sleepless pre-graduation nights. It's a pity somehow.

Remember: every time you refuse to throw away a thing that has objectively become unnecessary, you do not allow yourself to acquire something new. According to a Chinese proverb, there will never be anything new in life until something old is gone ("The old will not go away - the new will not come").

In addition, according to esotericists and psychologists, things that lie and are not used accumulate negative energy, which causes apathy, laziness and pathological fatigue among the inhabitants of a cluttered house. Well, and dust, of course (it is generally contraindicated for allergy sufferers to be Plyushkins).

If you accumulate things and do not use them, then it turns out that the energy has no way out. Energy circulates only when you have learned and applied something, bought it and put it on. When things just lie, they bring nothing.

It is necessary to get rid of old things because we immediately have space, free space. Free space, in turn, attracts something new, with new energy.

It is impossible to attract something new if there is physically nowhere to attract, if everything is packed everywhere, something is lying everywhere. You have to throw something away to bring something new into your life. No other way.

Vera Joyful

psychologist, art therapist

How do you know if things will soon consume you?*

* Consulted by psychologist Irina Solovieva

  • If your passion for collecting things is a manifestation mental disorder, it will necessarily be accompanied by other alarming symptoms. For example, inadequate perception of reality, impaired memory and attention.
  • Pay attention to the scale that materialism has taken. Maybe he started to interfere with your Everyday life? Maybe things are already pushing you out of the apartment?
  • What matters is what you collect. Let's say it's okay if a mechanic or engineer collects parts that may be useful to him in his work. But often, having "caught" Plushkin's syndrome, you begin to litter the house with completely unnecessary things.
  • Think about it, is it difficult for you to part with things - to sort out your wardrobe, give unnecessary things to an orphanage or the poor? If so, then it's time to sound the alarm.
  • Remember that older people are more prone to pathological hoarding. On a moderate scale, it is even normal for them. So you don't have to look up to the grandmother who doesn't throw away plastic chicken boxes, and the grandfather who collects bottles from the finished perfume.

How not to become a hostage of your own things?

1. Clean up household rubble once a month.

When you get used to getting rid of old things and parting with them will no longer seem like a disaster, general disassembly can be carried out less frequently.

2. Buy new things only after you get rid of the old ones.

If you buy a new chest of drawers, deciding to move the old one "sometime later", there is a high probability that your intention will never be fulfilled.

3. Be critical

Pull everything out of the cabinets, from the balcony, from the mezzanine. Sort things by constantly asking yourself the following questions: “Can I do without it?”, “Have I used it in the last six months / year?”, “Will it be useful to me in the next six months / year?”.

4. Get rid of things gradually

When dismantling, for example, old children's toys, first leave at home only those with which there is especially a lot happy memories. Then sort through the toys again. Well, if in the end there will be only one or two bunnies or bears dear to the heart. Give the rest of the toys to the orphanage - they are more needed there than on your mezzanines.

Toys are usually accepted at the same locations as clothing, a list of locations can be found.

5. Do not make a warehouse of non-working or simply unnecessary equipment out of your home

It is harmful not only for moral and physical health. Leave one old but still working mobile phone in case the current one breaks. Take all other equipment to special collection points for electrical appliances.

A list of places can be found.

6. Be extra careful when sorting out your old clothes.

Stop storing jeans that are out of fashion, or a jacket that once drove classmates and classmates crazy. Old clothes that gather dust in the closet can be useful to someone else - orphans, the poor, the elderly. Wash things, iron them and take them to a second-hand store or a special collection point, from where the clothes will be given to orphanages or social support centers.

List of places where clothes are accepted (naturally, not torn, not dirty and not wrinkled) -.

7. Don't overdo it when getting rid of things

Antique furniture, crockery, front-line letters from a great-grandfather, an old piano and a working cassette player, of course, are unworthy of being in the trash. A piano that has become unnecessary can be sold, antiques can be adapted to the interior of an apartment or cottage. With a set of dishes or glasses, you can do the same, after knowing its price.

The strangest things Muscovites keep at home*

Part of a nuclear reactor from Chernobyl and a spearhead. Fortunately, the "button" of the reactor is "cleaned" and has no background radiation.

Innokenty: "The nuclear reactor element is a gift from a person who was in Chernobyl. The thing itself is on the mnemonic diagram of the reactor shield, but no one knows the exact name. Another artifact is a spearhead I found during a trip to the Upper Volga Lakes in the 1980s" .

Rail. Timofey: "This thing is a rail fastening. It was found in the area of ​​​​the Matveevskoye platform. Left over from the construction of the railway.

I use it as a press when I need to glue something."

Stone from the construction of the Cathedral of Christ the Savior. Evlampia: "When I was little, my parents and I walked past the Cathedral of Christ the Savior - then it was still under construction. When we walked along the construction site, I lagged behind my parents, ran into it, took a piece of stone there and ran back to mom and dad. "

Stone from Andreevsky Descent. Agrippina: “When I was in Kiev, my friends and I went for a walk on Andreevsky Descent. They sell all sorts of rarities, trinkets and jewelry. I bought a pendant around my neck from one woman, and her little daughter - she was two and a half years old - said, I agreed, gave her the money, took the bag with the pendant, and in pursuit she picked up a piece of paving stones from the ground - and it’s so beautiful, red with some kind of mica - and said that it was a “wish stone”, and she he gives it to me. Since then, he has been living with me. "

Stone from Palace Square. Benjamin: "My friend and I were in St. Petersburg for the first time, and we were already tipsy enough to want to take a piece of the city with us. We took and pulled this stone right on Palace Square."

photo lab. Agathon: “I don’t collect any rubbish on the street, I have enough goods and enough at home. Most of the things left from my grandfather are a darkroom, rare photos(including Joseph Stalin), an ancient radio with buttons "Budapest", "Berlin", "Milan" and "Moscow", Morse code and more.

Morse code. Agathon: "I have not put things in proper order yet and periodically find something new - either a coin for my collection, or things that are completely incomprehensible to me that excite the imagination. Despite the fact that such rarities are most often put up for auction, I will not Still, these things are dear to me as a memory. "

* The names of the respondents have been changed for confidentiality purposes.

Anna Teplitskaya, Dmitry Kokoulin

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