The girl asks if I have a girlfriend. How to answer provocative questions from girls. Notice what she does

Generalization: initial confidence check. Important note: If you do everything correctly, then this check will not be performed. Pay attention to your preliminary actions, states, appearance.

Recipe: Better on the street than in the toilet

Recipe: Why did you come then?

Recipe: Bed is not yet a reason for dating

Recipe: Are you from the Urals?

Recipe: Let me teach you.

Recipe: And when sober?

Conclusion: you can work through neghits (like almost all the examples above), and by demonstrating confidence and adequacy.

2.10 How can I understand that she is interested in me?

Generalization: of course, this can be understood. For this, 2 recipes are used:

Recipe: Use calibration skills to determine depth of rapport, changes in breathing, logical levels of conversation, and other buzzwords.

Recipe: ask: - Do you already know that you are interested in me? Wait for an answer.

Conclusion: in general, there is such a delusional hallucination that if a woman communicates with you, then either she is interested in you, or she has no other choice. I could be wrong.

2.11 How to meet ninja girls? (saleswomen, hairdressers, athletes...)

Generalization: Anatomically, all women, with very rare exceptions, are the same. Physiology and psychology are also similar in many ways. Only the options for spending personal or working time can differ.

Recipe: the same as with other women.

Conclusion: from personal experience. Never, I repeat, never, seduce waitresses from places where you often appear and bring girls there. Leave a generous tip and stay healthy. You don't need jealous looks and various minor misunderstandings when you bring a new girl to your favorite place. So?

3. Conversation

3.1 She asks if I have a girlfriend

Generalization: this is a test, difficulty level - 2. The purpose of the test is to find out if you are popular with women. An additional purpose is to check for confidentiality.

Recipe: - I have many beautiful girls I know who like me. And it's mutual. (Avoiding a direct answer, while creating the appearance of great attention from the female sex).

Recipe: - I agree. (The girl’s possible answer is to what? - well, are you suggesting we date, or did I understand something wrong? Shifting the initiative in her direction.)

Recipe: (carefully looking her up and down) - What do you want to find out with this?

Recipe: - I have quite a lot of close friends among girls with whom I have very good relationships.

3.2 She asks how many women you've had

Generalization - verification. Difficulty level – 3. Any exact answer will be incorrect.

Recipe: - I had 4 concussions and one clinical death. That's why I forget a lot. (I don’t remember the shorter version).

Recipe: - More than yours.

Recipe: - From zero to infinity.

Recipe: - Minus one. I tried to jerk off, but it didn't work.

Recipe: - There were three. But then there was another man. And so - two.

Conclusion: the answer is as vague as possible, which, however, leaves a lot of room for getting into the girl’s belief system.

Girls are mysterious, shy and like to hide their feelings. It is quite possible that in your immediate circle there are beauties who are attracted to you. How to tell if a girl likes you.

It is often not easy to understand whether a girl likes you. Some girls don't hide it, flirting openly, giggling and blushing whenever they're around you. Others, on the contrary, are very shy and hide their feelings. However, it doesn't matter at all what type of girl you come across because there are a number of unmistakable signs that give her away. If you like a girl and want to find out whether your feelings are mutual, or simply want to understand whether your classmate or social circle friend likes you, follow the proven methods below.

1. Notice what she does

1.1 Try to catch her eye on you. This is what will give her away. If you look across the classroom or the hall at a party and catch her looking at you, then she might like you. And if she, noticing that you have caught her gaze, turns away shyly or smiles weakly at you, then she practically admits that she has fallen in love with you.

Watch her just as discreetly, otherwise she will think that you are staring at her.

1.2 See if she gets embarrassed in your company. This is the next evidence that she likes you. If she blushes or gets embarrassed every time you walk past her or address her, this means that she likes you and she is worried about how and what to answer you. If you notice that she is blushing, do not ask her about it again or tease her, because such behavior may scare her and push her away from you.

Just make sure she's not the kind of girl who blushes every time any guy talks to her, because she might just be shy around guys.

1.3 Observe how much she laughs around you. Most girls laugh a lot in the company of guys they like, because being next to a guy they like is inspiring and can turn their heads. If the girl next to you giggles and laughs often even when you haven't said anything funny, she probably likes you. She may laugh because she just likes you, but if she really thinks that everything you say is very funny, then she is head over heels for you.

The next time you talk, take a closer look to see if she laughs often. Make a light joke and watch how she laughs - she probably has feelings for you.

1.4 Take a closer look at how the girl’s friends react when passing by you. They can tell a lot about her feelings without saying a word. Next time, walking down the corridor, take a closer look at how the girl’s friends, when they see you, will make fun of her, nudge her with their elbows, or simply nod their heads in your direction, indicating to the girl your presence. This is a pretty clear sign that the girl has her eye on you.

If her friends greet you with a sly smile, this again may indicate that the girl is not indifferent to you.

1.5 See if she is looking for a reason to be with you. If a girl has her eye on you, she will want to spend a lot of time next to you. And for this she will look for any reason. For example, she will ask you to help her with math, or even invite you to watch a movie or a concert. She may do this casually so that you don't guess her true motives.

If you have been in the same social circle for a long time, and the girl began to show herself relatively recently, this probably means that she is not indifferent to you.

1.6 Notice how much attention she pays to her appearance in your presence. If a girl dresses up and preens more often in your presence, she may be trying to impress you. If you spend time only with her or in a small company, and she often puts on lipstick or gloss, admires herself in the mirror, or constantly adjusts her clothes, she is most likely trying to please you.

If you unexpectedly find her in casual clothes, it means she is dressing up just for you.

If you happen to meet at the grocery store and she starts making jokes about her plain appearance, it means she's embarrassed that you saw her like that.

1.7 Read her body language. A girl's body language can tell you a lot about her feelings. If she constantly looks into your eyes, moves closer, and turns completely towards you when you talk to her, this is an indication that she likes you. Here's something else you need to pay attention to:
If she twirls her hair while talking to you, it means she's nervous about liking you.

If a girl crosses her legs, changing them, she again becomes nervous when talking to you.

If she looks away and sometimes looks at the floor, it means she likes you.

1.8 Look how she behaves with other guys. It is very important. Sometimes you think that a girl is in love with you, but in fact she may turn out to be flirty, sociable and playful with many guys. Some girls really fall in love with guys, and some simply prefer male company to female company. You might misunderstand a girl who is friendly with everyone into thinking that she has a crush on you.

Check how a girl behaves with guys. If she behaves the same way with everyone, it means that she is just that kind of person.

If she treats you differently, paying more attention to your person - or, conversely, less attention because she is shy when talking with you - perhaps she is in love with you.

2. Notice how a girl speaks

2.1 See if she teases you. If a girl teases you, this is another sign that she cares about you. Teasing is a form of flirting. In this playful way, the girl lets you know that she likes you. She may pester you, making fun of your clothes, playfully pushing or pushing you, and even making fun of your haircut or new shoes. But don’t be offended - this is how she pays attention to you.

Compare who she hits on - all the guys or just you. If she makes fun of everyone, then she's just a joker. But if she jokes only at you, then she is singling you out.

2.2 Notice if she praises you. If a girl constantly praises you, most likely she really likes you. If she says she likes your new shoes, how you responded to stories, or how cool you were at basketball even though you only hit the ball, then she definitely likes you. When a girl likes you, she likes every little thing you do and she's not afraid to tell you about it.

She might just be a really nice girl, doling out compliments here and there. Or says nice things only to you. Who knows - maybe in the latter case she is the type of very nice girl. Or maybe not.

If she compliments you on a new shirt or haircut, it means she is keeping an eye on your wardrobe and changes in your appearance. And this is a strong signal that she has fallen for you.

2.3 Watch if she is looking for a reason to talk to you. If a girl is in love with you, she will look for any excuse to start a conversation, unless, of course, she is irrevocably modest. If you don't have mutual friends or other reasons to cross paths, she might just come up and ask a trivial question about what was asked in math, which, in principle, is easy to find out from other classmates. She may even call or text asking a trivial question in hopes of continuing the conversation.
If she likes you, she may try to start a conversation based on your taste, for example about sports or her favorite TV show. She might just come up and ask you if you watched last night's game or what you thought about the final season of your favorite show. She might share your hobbies, or maybe she's just looking for a conversation starter.

2.4 She may ask if you like someone. The girl will try to insinuately find out if you have a crush on someone, if you are going to spend the weekend with some friend, if you are in love with someone, which allows you to see right through the girl's intentions. If a girl asks a question about whether you are in love with someone, it should be understood as follows: “Do you like me?”

There is only one more explanation for this - she can ask such questions because one of her friends is in love with you.

If you tell her that you don’t like anyone, she may ask the following: “You don’t like anyone at all? You must like someone..." Here she wants to hear that you are in love with her.

Even the fact that she is interested in your personal front proves that she has romantic feelings for you.

2.5 Pay attention to what she says about the girls with whom you move in the same circles. Is the girl trying to humiliate the girls you hang out with in any way? Does she say that all your former passions are unworthy of you? If yes, the girl is hinting to you that she is the one and the only one for you. If she speaks unflatteringly about your friends and any girls you talk to during recess, then she is incredibly jealous of you because you are not paying enough attention to her.

If a girl is jealous even though you haven't even met yet, that's normal. However, make sure that this is not an issue if you end up planning to date her.

2.6 Be wary when she makes it clear that she would like to have a boyfriend. It seems to her that she is just hinting, but if she constantly says: “It would be great if I had a boyfriend,” “I’m not so tired of being alone,” “I wish I had a boyfriend so I could go to the movies with him.” , this means she is asking you to be her boyfriend. If she often subtly hints that she wants to date someone, that someone is you.

There is another explanation for this - she wants a relationship with one of your friends. But if she never asks about your friends, then she has a crush on you.

2.7 Listen to how she talks about other guys. If she says that this or that guy is not good enough for her, or there are no guys like you, she is letting you know that she needs you. In addition, she can also tell who is lacking what, focusing on your personal qualities.

If she says that she would go on a date with a guy who has a great sense of humor, and it is your humor that she constantly praises, this means that she wants to date you.

If she complains to you about other guys, she is letting you know that she likes you more than the others.

2.8 See how often she calls or texts you. If she constantly calls you or texts you, she definitely cares about you. If she sends you a lot of cute emojis, calls you just to say “hi” or to ask you about homework that she can ask anyone, then she is looking for reasons to talk to you.

If she texts you with emojis or words like “hehe”, then she is flirting with you.

3. Find out for sure if she likes you

3.1 Ask your friends. The primary source of information should be your friends. Ask them if they have seen you and this girl together, and then ask them to answer honestly whether they think she likes you. Perhaps friends from the outside know better, and they will tell you whether this girl is in love with you or whether she is flirting with everyone. Ask them to be honest because you have a right to know the truth.

Your buddies may know who else this girl might like. This information may be useful before you try to talk to a girl alone.

3.2 Ask her friends. This is just as risky as asking the girl directly. But if you really trust one of her friends and are sure that he will not rat you out, feel free to go and ask. Her friend probably knows whether she likes you or not - whether he will tell you about it is another matter.

Just don't attach much importance to questions. Don't expose yourself.

3.3 Ask the girl. If you also like this girl and want to know the truth, don't be afraid to ask. Just find a time when you are alone in a quiet place and ask her how she feels about you. If you like her, tell her first and add that you'd like to know if it's mutual. Speak calmly, make eye contact, and give her your full attention so she knows how important she is to you. But don't exaggerate so as not to scare her away.

If she admits it's mutual, ask her out and see where it goes.

If she doesn't have feelings for you, react calmly. Don't be upset or offended - be impartial and show her what a great guy you are.

Adviсe

If you want to confess your crush to a girl or ask her if she likes you, don't choose school or lunch time to do it. Choose a more secluded place and appropriate time for such questions.

Don't act like she's from another planet. And don't neglect her. Otherwise you will break her heart.

If you have mutual feelings, but the girl is very shy, take the first step.

Don't be cowardly, otherwise she will hate you. Behave yourself properly.

If you think your answers are impeccable, why does she always cry in the corner, throwing an ashtray at your head? A girl who has lived for many years among her own kind shares her invaluable experience.

Natalia Radulova

The day will come when she will ask you. The most innocent, at first glance, question - which, upon closer examination, turns out to be more dangerous than cholera. Unless, of course, you can find the correct answer to it.

It's not just women who ask. Tax inspectors, investigators and embassies of foreign powers to which you are trying to get a visa often suffer from this same sweet weakness. So there is no need to slander female obsession - at least we very rarely shout “Ausweiss!” at you, demanding that you list the maiden names of all your great-grandmothers in alphabetical order. When we ask you our eternal questions, we most often crave not information - but the right reaction. And usually we don’t wait for it. Perhaps this is what we need... but in general, a compromise would make both sides happier. You would stop being angry, she would stop being offended, and valuable porcelain plates would remain intact. And there are only a few of these unfortunate questions - what should you learn once and for all the correct answers to them? Well, please-ahh! Well, what is it worth to you?!.. And happiness will immediately come on earth, and we will all, holding hands, dance on a green meadow a dance of harmony and general delight.

"Do you love me?"

As usual you answer:
a) Yes.
b) What do you think I’m doing now?
c) Well, you know why ask!
d) Who? I?

All of the above answers are not, in fact, answers to this question. In fact, she already suspects that you treat her well - but she passionately wants to listen to all sorts of beautiful and promising words. The lady needs a sip of attention, and you offer her a few drops. So she will repeat again: “Do you love me?” The subsequent dialogue is easy to predict:

YOU: I said yes!
SHE: That's not what I asked. I asked: do you love me?
YOU: Yes-aaah! I love. Almost like myself. You are happy?
SHE: I just asked if you love me, and you immediately start yelling!

You spend the next half hour in silence. Her condemnation blazes in neon letters. You click the TV remote control nervously. She slams the bedroom door. You sleep on the sofa in the living room. After a week of hassle and showdown, you finally make peace. And you live peacefully until the next “Do you love me?”

There is such a term in linguistics. It's called an "expanded proposal". It is necessary to answer with the help of these proposals. Avoid humor, don’t give in to utter slobbering, and take heartfelt pauses in places where you start to lose your train of thought. The general idea of ​​the statement should be that without it, your life would be devoid of purpose, joy and any meaning. (If you feel too embarrassed, you can cross your fingers behind your back.)

Just twenty-two words instead of one pathetic partisan “uh-huh” - and you can consider that our diplomats have achieved significant success in the peaceful resolution of the military conflict.

"I look like?"

As usual you answer:
Oh good.
b) Great.
c) Normal.
d) You don’t say anything, you depict everything with facial muscles.

We are trying to collect a generous tribute of admiration from you, but you want to get off with a dry statement of fact. This will not work. Be sure to highlight the most successful details of her appearance, point out the overall completeness of the picture, and end the event with a kiss. By the way, if you notice any defect (a tightening on a stocking, a button has come off, the back of the skirt is tucked into tights), report it only in cases where this defect can be immediately eliminated. Otherwise, be blind and dumb.

A woman is very dependent on male opinion. With one or two words you can either raise her to the pedestal of radiant narcissism or throw her into the abyss of self-abasement. And being in the company of a lady who is in this abyss is very unpleasant. At such moments our character deteriorates extremely.

Be sure to highlight the most successful details of her appearance

"What are you thinking about?"

As usual you answer:
a) Huh?
b) What?
c) Nothing.

She, like you, knows very well that a person is not able to think “about anything” (exceptions are victims of catatonic stupor, yoga, some members of the ruling party). The thought process always goes on - be it in flashes, be it in dying bursts... So she automatically translates the answer “about nothing” as “get rid of it.” Which is sad and offensive.

It’s better to answer the truth: “About zigzags on the parquet floor, about duties on foreign cars and about how I poisoned myself with kefir in the third grade.”

She will decide that you are sincere and spontaneous and will stop painfully suspecting that you are dreaming about some impudent outsider right next to her.

“Why are you always like this?”

How do you usually answer:
a) No, not always.
b) No, not always.
c) No, not always.

The woman uses words with poetic license. For the sake of greater effect, she is even ready to exaggerate something. For example, if you break a glass, she will sarcastically ask: “Why are you always so awkward?” Naturally, you will immediately put on an assault face and begin to insist on the accuracy of the wording. You will open the doors of the cupboard and show off other surviving glasses that you have used more than once. Maybe you can even bring Ozhegov’s dictionary, which says in black and white that “always” means “at all times, constantly.” But she will remain deaf to your arguments. Moreover: the more fiercely you insist on your own, the more her irritation will grow. As Dovlatov wrote: “You appeal to logic and common sense. And suddenly you discover that she is disgusted by the very sound of your voice.”

“Careful, honey, don’t get hurt by the fragments.”

By giving up defense, attack, counterattack and brilliant parry, you will save your and her nerve cells, a bottle of valerian and the gasoline that would be needed to bring her back from her mother. And at the same time, you will prove that you belong to a tribe of strong, laconic men who do not quarrel with women over any nonsense.

“Which dress should I wear: blue or red?”

How do you usually answer:
a) Blue.
b) Red.
c) Oh, my God!

This is the case when you need to answer the question with a question: “Which one would you choose?” After her hesitant: “k-red,” we must continue the offensive: “Why?” After listening to the explanation: “I haven’t worn it for a long time... it shades my fair skin well... I want to wear dark lipstick... this color actually suits me better,” exclaim loudly: “Wonderful choice!”

For women, the process of dressing is real creativity. With torment, a feeling of unfulfillment and incomprehension... everything is as it should be. By forcing her to clearly articulate her ideas, you will achieve their speedy implementation, and you may not even be late for the cinema.

“How was your day?”

How do you usually answer:
a) Normal.
b) So-so.

Being such, to put it mildly, a taciturn interlocutor, you run the risk of unnoticeably turning into one of those scoundrels that women usually complain about in the “Cry of the Heart” sections. You know, “my boyfriend constantly neglects to communicate with me, and because of this I don’t want to have sex with him.”

“In righteous, but tedious labors. What’s new with you?” True, you should be prepared for the fact that after this you will have to listen to a long, heartbreaking story about what is happening in their office, under the office, above the office and what a strange trolleybus, painted in pink checkered, passed the cafe today at three fifteen where she had lunch.

Because you will show attention to her, express a submissive readiness to make contact, and at the same time get rid of the need to take on the difficult role of the author of the story. When they said that “a woman loves with her ears,” the classics shed a somewhat one-sided light on the situation. We love our tongue even more passionately. Especially after dinner with a cup of tea and buns.

"You are listening to me?"

How do you usually answer:
a) Yeah.
b) Uh-huh.
in what?

How to answer:

“I just thought for a second - why was it pink checkered?”

Even if you say this phrase after her remark: “Darling, stop nodding your head, I haven’t talked for ten minutes,” you still have a chance not only to get out, but also to score points. The woman will make sure that you are not ignoring her. On the contrary, her words sank deep into your heart, and you reflect on them. She will look at you with new interest and think: “Wow, how wonderful, sensitive and thoughtful he is. Not like the others."

When a guy develops a crush on a representative of the fair sex, he will inevitably be interested in the question of how to know that a girl likes you. Many young people are embarrassed to ask directly. Therefore, it is worth observing the girl’s behavior. Then it will become clear whether she is experiencing. There are signs that help you more likely recognize mutual interest.

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How do you know if a girl likes you?

There are methods to check a girl's sympathy. Among them:

1. Look into her eyes and smile. This needs to be done spontaneously. If she smiles back at you, that's a positive sign.
2. Try to flirt a little with the other one in front of her. Be careful, otherwise you may only make the situation worse. Watch her reaction. Interest in you and jealousy can be revealed by irritability, rapid mood swings, and increased breathing. The girl may try to divert your attention to herself.

The fair half of humanity has a fairly large arsenal of ways to tell a guy about your sympathy. Young people cannot always notice the signs and signals that ladies send them. Girls use verbal and non-verbal methods. You just need to take a closer look.

By behavior

When wondering how to find out if a girl likes me, it is recommended to analyze her behavior. A key sign of attraction is flirting.

If she laughs in front of you, tries to accidentally touch you, or enter into a dialogue, it means she is interested in you.

Don't forget that every girl is individual. Therefore, it is recommended to consider the following rules:

• some girls are attracted by the flirting process itself and more often they do not experience serious interest in the object;
• other girls do not understand at all that they are flirting and do not notice it in themselves;
• there are shy girls who are too shy to use such signals of sympathy;
• if the girl is shy, but you have reason to believe that she likes you, pay attention to hidden signs;
• she may become tense in your presence, begins to blush when you talk to her or just meet your eyes;
• a girl can constantly adjust her clothes, bag, fidget with her bracelet, etc. - with these signals, the lady unconsciously tries to communicate her interest in you.

The girl changes in appearance: it could be clothes, makeup or hairstyle. If she used to hardly wear makeup or do her hair, and now she constantly looks literally perfect, she probably wants you to like her.

There are girls who almost always look perfect. Therefore, it will take some time to observe possible changes in appearance. Keep in mind that a lady can transform not for you, but for another young man. This sign is more of an addition than a key proof that a girl likes you.

According to words and intonations

When wondering how to find out if a girl likes you, pay attention to her intonation and words. Analyze the way she talks to others and to you. Are there any changes in her voice? During a conversation, she can adapt to your speech, change the volume and tempo.

Pay attention to what exactly she says:

1. He talks about himself or tries to get to know you better. In a normal situation, this is a sign of a girl’s sociability, but if there are other signs of interest in you, this becomes additional evidence.
2. If she asks about your exes, she may be trying to figure out if she's your type.
3. If she constantly talks about her past relationships, then it is more likely that she needs a friend, not a boyfriend.

A clear sign of sympathy is the mention in a conversation of plans for a joint future. For example, if she, as if by chance, notices that they should go to a new film together. The girl is waiting for an invitation from you to the cinema, and she is interested in you. Therefore, you should not continue to remain indecisive, wondering how to find out whether a girl likes you or not.

A phone conversation can also be a sign that she is interested in you. No matter how busy a girl is, no matter how tired she is, she will always find time for the guy she likes. If she's happy to talk to you on the phone, she probably cares about you. When there is a pause in the conversation, she tries to find a new topic to continue the conversation.

By non-verbal signs

Body language says a lot about a person. By non-verbal signs one can judge the presence or absence of sympathy for a young man:

• if a girl looks indifferent, in your company her arms are often crossed and she does not look at you, this indicates her indifference;
• when a lady tries to catch your eye, leans closer in your direction during a conversation, these can be regarded as signs of sympathy.

Look how the girl behaves in your presence. Many people, wanting to make an impression and attract attention, behave quite confidently. She may look at you or pretend that she is busy with something more important. Then she tries to seem hard to touch or wants to make you feel jealous.

If a girl looks indifferent, you should not immediately think that she is indifferent to you. After all, sometimes she behaves this way because of embarrassment and ignorance of the correct behavior around you. Some girls are so nervous that from the outside they seem indifferent. You can reveal the presence of sympathy for you if you make the lady relax in your company. Once she sees that she can trust you, she will act more interested.

When a girl, sitting, turns her body in your direction, this indicates her interest in the conversation. Even if this is a standard conversation on casual topics, you can judge by her body movements how open she is to you.

Among the signs that indicate that a girl likes you are:

1. During the conversation, she looks into your eyes and tries to catch your gaze.
2. The body is turned towards you.
3. The toes of her feet are pointed in your direction.
4. At every opportunity, she tries to reduce the distance between you and does not miss the opportunity to touch you.

She may be doing this unconsciously. On a subconscious level, the girl wants to show her interest in you.

How can you tell from correspondence that she likes you?

In addition to external manifestations, many young people are interested in how to find out if a girl likes you by correspondence. It’s not easy to identify a woman’s sympathy from a distance. But there are criteria that can show how interesting you are to your interlocutor. How to understand that a girl likes you via correspondence on VK? The signs that will be listed apply to all social networks. It is only important to pay attention to the features of communication:

1. How quickly does a girl respond to your messages? It is worth taking into account that she may simply be busy at a given time. However, if she always takes too long to respond, she probably isn't as interested in the conversation with you.
2. Is she the first to text when you appear online? If she's waiting for you to text her, she might just be shy about taking the initiative.
3. A large number of likes and comments from her to any of your posts indicate that she is interested.
4. Pay attention to what exactly she writes. Gives detailed answers or monosyllabic ones, and willingly answers questions. When you use “clear” and “understandable” in abundance, you may think that she is indifferent to you;
5. Is she ever frank with you?

The listed signs will help bring a little clarity and tell you whether the girl is interested in you.

How to check your classmate's attitude towards you at school?

Many boys wonder how to find out if a girl likes you at school. After all, there are modest and shy girls, and there are those who have no problems with communication. To find out that a girl likes you, pay attention to her appearance.

It has already been noted that some girls begin to dress differently, wear makeup and do their hairstyles in order to attract the attention of the young man they like. But it’s also worth watching to see if she starts to blush when you’re around. This is one of the clear signs of female sympathy.

She may blush at the mere sight of you or during a conversation. If this happens only when communicating with you, then it’s not a matter of the lady’s shyness, but of her interest in you.

The following signs that a girl likes you matter:

• does she look at you when you don't notice it;
• at an unexpected moment, turn around at her, and if you catch her looking at you, perhaps she is not indifferent to you: she may blush, abruptly look away and no longer look in your direction;
• if she laughs as she walks past you with her friends, perhaps she is trying to attract your attention;
• if a group of girls tries to push her towards you and laughs, they probably know that she likes you;
• if at the same time she begins to feel embarrassed and tries not to meet your gaze, it means that she is not indifferent to you.

When wondering how to check if a girl likes you, be sure to pay attention to whether she is trying to give you a gift.

If she presented you with a homemade pot in a mug or a pen with the logo of your favorite sports club, it means she is trying to show her sympathy for you. This is how a girl strives to make a good impression.

Useful video

In the following video, we suggest taking 6 tests that will help you find out if a girl likes you:

Conclusion

1. The best way to find out whether a girl likes you or not is to ask her directly.
2. If you are embarrassed to ask such a question, then you should just watch her behavior to find out that the girl likes you.
3. You will definitely see the difference between communication and her behavior with other people and with you. Provided that she feels sympathy for you.

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It's hard to say why girls like to provoke you in all sorts of strange ways. They may have a lot of reasons for this - to arrange some kind of checks, for fun, just by chance. One of the easiest ways to provoke is to ask tricky questions. How to understand whether it is provocative or not? It's actually very simple - either he hooks you or he doesn't. If girls’ questions don’t bother you, then you probably wouldn’t open this article...

Therefore, the most important way to deal with provocative questions is not to succumb to provocations. That is, react as if it doesn’t bother you. Because if you start frantically thinking and coming up with the correct answer, that’s it, you’ve already fallen for a provocation. And even if you answer something, it seems correct, then this will be the beginning. Girls are very good at seeing men's insecurities because it is such a stark contrast to what they value most in men - confidence. Noticing your uncertainty, when trying to answer such a question, a girl can act like an excellent boxer who notices that the enemy has swum - she knocks out such a man with a series of the following questions.

Fortunately, this doesn't always happen. In the first stages of dating and seduction, girls can be especially demanding of men. But in the future, the girl will not finish you off, but will simply take note.

A show of confidence is what a girl needs most often, not the right answer. If you confidently answer “I don’t know,” or “I can’t tell you that,” or “I don’t want to talk about that,” then it will work just like any other answer. But it may raise more questions that you must also answer confidently and calmly. In addition, it often happens that there is no correct answer - the girl just wants to get to know you, and that’s why she asks something.

What questions can most often be considered provocative or inconvenient? First of all, touching on topics to which you do not have an answer, either you yourself are afraid to give one, or you are embarrassed to answer. For example, a list of questions or phrases that may be stressful or seem provocative:

1. What are you thinking about?
2. Say something nice...
3. Do you live with your parents?
4. What do you do for a living?
5. Do you have a license/car?
6. Do you have a girlfriend?
7. How do you feel about me?
8. Who am I to you?
9. Do you like me?
10. Do you just want sex?
11. Do you love me?
12. Is this your first time?

The list goes on. After all, each guy may be slightly different, and if all the questions are summed up, there will be a whole volume of war and peace. The general recommendation is to answer directly, confidently and truthfully. If the truth seems too unpleasant to you, then come up with an answer to ALL questions that are difficult for you in advance.

For example, some guys are afraid that a girl will ask them about their girlfriend and it is difficult for them to answer that she is not there - then he is like a loser, and to say that he is - then why is he hanging out with a new girl. A confident guy would simply tell it like it is, and not worry, but then work with the girl’s reaction. But if this is not your option, then at least come up with some witty answer that you can wrap up in the topic. "Do you have a girlfriend? – (smiling) are you already looking at this role? :))” – and thereby provoke the girl.

Another strategy for responding to a provocative question is to respond not to the question itself, but to the request. After all, a girl asks for a reason, but for some purpose, and sometimes it is more important for her to achieve her goal than to receive an answer. For example, asking who you live with could mean asking “will we have somewhere to have sex?” When you start responding to a girl's requests, you will be surprised how much more productive your communication will become.

To summarize, when answering a girl’s questions, it is important to remain confident, have an answer (the truth or a blank), and answer the girl’s unspoken request. And, probably most importantly, do not perceive the girl as an investigator who is trying to split you during interrogation - treat these questions and answers as an entertaining game. Then you will have a good and fun time, not only trying to answer, but forcing the girl herself to work hard on tricky questions.