The relationship between spouses is manipura chakra. Secrets of relationships by chakras. The meaning of chakras in relationships

Since ours constantly receive and send energy, we are constantly under someone’s influence and ourselves influence others - sometimes positively, and sometimes not. No wonder some people want to be hermits.

If your energies are strong, you will immediately have an impact on anyone near you. What kind of impact this will have depends on the conditions of the other person’s energy system.
Someone who is weak or not feeling well may feel fearful, depressed, or “squeezed out” in your presence; this person can also receive energy from you. If the other person also has strong energies, there is greater balance and better understanding, or a sense of equality, between you.

We feel energy primarily through our most. If your sex chakra is most open, then no matter what you receive from others, you will perceive it on a sexual level. Moreover, the energy of the other person will come primarily from the sexual level. If your most open chakra is the heart, you will tend to experience life as love.

The energy perceived by the spleen and navel chakras that are too open causes strong emotional reactions. Some people receive most of their energy through the third eye; and interact with the world mainly on a mental level. Unexpected reactions of other people with whom such contact is established take place due to the process of “knocking out” some of their chakras, but more on that later. The reverse is also true: you receive strong energies from others through your strongest chakra. If you feel a strong reaction to another person, but do not understand it, try to find out in which area or in which chakra you feel this energy most. If you feel that your energetic response is inadequate, consciously move the energy to the area of ​​​​another chakra (heart or frontal).

When you feel that your energies are disturbing your sense of comfort with their excessive intensity, stretch your entire body and take a deep breath. This will ease tension and increase the flow of energy. Another way to achieve balance is to release energy through your feet or the top of your head. An even distribution of energy throughout the body occurs during dance, and therefore dance is good for releasing when you feel tight or blocked; it can also be used as a preparation for meditation or intense mental work.

E energy connections

People with strong mutual feelings for each other form relationships that work even when they are not physically together. The connection can be in the heart, the brow, navel, and sex chakras, or a combination of chakras. People who are especially sensitive to these energies can sense them, and clairvoyants can see them. Two people who are in a relationship but ignore each other in front of others are likely hiding their connection. However, the connection between them can be felt or physically seen.

If one of the two begins to send energy to a third party, his or her partner may notice that something is missing, something is brewing, or feel a loss without understanding the reason. And the reason is a decrease in the flow in the direction of the couple’s energy union.

In marriage or close friendships, a strong connection can be very beneficial and comfortable. If there is contact at all levels of the chakras, partners feel that their energies are mixed and they really suit each other. Relationships that are accompanied by an easy flow of energy and strong contacts have a chance to last for a long time. But the intensity can be excessive. Too strong a connection may indicate a lack of individuality. Sometimes one takes on the characteristics of the other. For this reason, we must be careful about with whom we make our deepest contact.

Sometimes a parent feels a greater sense of closeness or love towards one of several children. The reason could be a strong connection coming from a past life, or simply a good interaction of the energy of their chakras in this life. Even when a parent tries to treat all children equally, the others usually sense who gets more attention energy. They may believe that the parent loves the other child more, when in reality there is simply a strong connection. Such connections can change throughout life. Negative feelings between people often manifest as a negative connection between their spleen or navel chakras.

By the way, you can remove unnecessary bindings, cleanse, activate, and saturate the chakras with energy.

Exercise. Close your eyes. Who do you have physical connections with? Are they negative or positive? In which chakras do you feel them? What are your connections to other people's chakras? Do they drain you or strengthen you?

X arisma, or energy gift, and people of strong energy

Gifted people have strong energy fields that they can use in positive or negative ways. Have you ever listened to a speaker with rapturous rapture, and after a while wondered how you could possibly agree with that person's ideas? You were under the spell of the speaker, feeling his charismatic energy. Great speakers can convey the essence of their message to listeners through their energy and truly touch the audience and often inspire them. Great actors and actresses do the same thing. Magicians do the same thing. A charismatic person is able to send energies from various chakras that can “flush” the chakras of others.

Sometimes you may notice that someone is literally “brainwashing” you with the pressure of their energies, and you find yourself in a situation where you don’t know what to answer, are unable to think clearly or say anything intelligible. You feel defenseless. The charismatic personality type usually sends out very strong energies from the third eye (between the eyebrows) or from the fifth eye (in the center of the forehead). If you feel something like this happening to you, send energy from your third or fifth eye (depending on the circumstances) and allow it to meet the other person's energy halfway; you will protect your way of thinking from destruction. If you have difficulty following or understanding someone else's train of thought, gently send energy from your fifth eye.

Some charismatic individuals are so full of love and peace that it seems as if they can change any vibration wherever they appear with just a wave of their hand. Simply by being in their presence, other people can experience upliftment from their energies.

IN knocking out chakras

A strong flow of energy from a particular chakra of another person can suppress you in a similar chakra. Being around someone who is very irritated and upset can throw you off balance; you yourself become irritated and upset. You could send calmness from your navel chakra to counteract the other person's energies. You may also notice that focusing on a higher chakra helps normalize the situation.

We all have to be careful not to get swept away, and also be careful about what we send to others. One person in a state of irritation can “wind up” everyone around him – at home or at work. Often, after some unpleasant incident, co-workers disperse, complaining and indignant, not realizing that they have been knocked out by negative energy and are now its carriers. A wonderful gift you can give to people is to allow them to have their own living space and not be drawn into or provoke their mentality by your actions; in the same way, you can be in your own mood without dragging others into it.

They are especially good at “knocking out” parents with their negative thoughts and emotions. Adults may give in to children or block them completely so that they stop hurting their chakras. Living together creates situations in which all members of the group tend to block or open the same chakras. Children adopt many of the attitudes and feelings of their parents even on a subconscious level, perceiving that certain chakras should be closed or open at certain moments; no one thinks about how a child learns from his parents ways of interacting with the world.

Any thought or feeling you have for another person takes on an energetic form that is sent to that person. It affects a person on one level or another. Remember that everything you send out will eventually come back to you. You get what you give.

If you feel an influx of extraneous thoughts and feelings, imagine yourself surrounded by psychic ultraviolet light. If feelings or thoughts intensify, then they are yours; if they fade and disappear, they come from others. You may even be able to figure out who sent them to you or see his or her face. The person may not want anything bad. Many careless thoughts and feelings pollute our atmosphere.

D eat for others

If you want someone to have certain energies, such as confidence or calmness, feel it in your own energies and it will usually be reflected in other people. Sometimes you may get angry at someone else for not being calm or peaceful, but this will only make the situation worse.

I ness

By vividly experiencing what you are thinking or saying, you become more aware of your thought. It also helps you communicate the essence of your message to others. As a result, you are better understood.

« IN Empire style"

People with low energy levels may unknowingly drain energy from others. These people are not trained to collect energy from the environment, and instead suck it, already adapted, from others; or they are so emotionally disturbed, or physically so weak, that they are unable to gather energy on their own. “Adapted” means that the energy has already been received by another person and, as a result of frequency conversion, has become usable; therefore it is easy to transport.

People in whose presence you feel exhausted or irritated for no apparent reason drain your energy. Siphoning energy weakens you. You may feel your aura “slamming shut.” As you do this, your energy returns to you and your body tenses. You involuntarily begin to look for some reason to get rid of it. When you succeed and your energy returns to its true state, you may wonder why you did what you did. Were you careless or too hasty? Maybe you should have stayed? Perhaps a feeling of guilt will follow, which will help to comprehend and understand the dynamics of this pumping of energy.

When you feel drained, you can focus on the chakra or chakras that are draining energy. You can also then either close the chakra or send the energy to another person. Giving energy is a gift, and when you give, you become stronger. But if the person you are sending energy to does not relax or strengthen, you should stop sending energy. Sometimes people become dependent on the energy of others. When you decide not to send energy to them, take care to protect yourself by filling and surrounding yourself with white light, consciously willing your own aura to become stronger, and creating a force field that protects you from debilitating influences. Another way is to imagine a glass wall between you and the “vampire”.

« P rovocators"

A person with extremely busy or imbalanced chakras may seek out various situations and opportunities (such as certain arguments) to release excess energies. Some people feel better when they cause some confusion. They instigate or start an incident and it stimulates their own energy and releases their blocks, but it doesn't do the same for the other person. Gossip, heavy judgments are another form of provocative release of energy. If you find yourself in the company of a person who is trying to inflame his interlocutors, try to remain calm and do not let yourself get knocked out. Perhaps you could change the subject or ask the person not to talk badly about others in front of you.

WITH ex

The reason for the predominance of sexual thoughts and feelings may be too open sexual chakras. Whether a person is aware of it in a given situation or not, others perceive his sexual energies, perhaps even to the extent that they begin to assume sexual interest on his part. This can be confusing or confusing. In a situation like this, make sure your own sexual chakras are balanced or your higher chakras are open; then you'll be less inclined to take it all personally.

Sometimes people with very high spiritual energies and blocked sexual energies attract people with blocked spiritual energies and strong sexual energies. This is the attraction of opposites; but we are also dealing with higher and lower levels of the same energy, and it may be that the very spiritual energies of one person attract the sexual vibrations of another. Protect yourself by filling and surrounding yourself with radiant light and feeling balance throughout your body. Relationships and sex are more favorable when all chakras are balanced, open, and energy flows well through them.

E energy blocks

We spend most of our lives communicating, receiving other people's energy and sending our own energy to someone else. Both are important: how we receive other people’s energies, and how others receive our energies. When in the company of a person whose chakras are blocked, you may feel as if he is withdrawing from you, as if he does not care about you. But actually it is not. A person, on the contrary, may even really want communication, but he is so used to blocking the chakras that he is afraid to open them in your presence; relationships in this situation can be scary and stressful.

If you want to be more open, feel your chakras relaxed, open, and receptive to the energies of others. Openness has a very positive effect: there is a feeling of connection, strength, connection, or a feeling that you are not alone in the world. If you want others to be more receptive to you, let the energies emanating from you be peaceful. Don't force them, otherwise the person may feel attacked.

L better understanding of your chakras: exercise

Close your eyes. Imagine that a person who is important in your life is standing in front of you or next to you. Feel how your body reacts to its presence. Which chakras are open or closed? You will feel relaxation if they are open and tension if they are closed. By becoming more aware of the movement of your own energies, you will be better able to control what happens and enjoy life more. Remember that the nature of energy changes depending on the situation and the people you are with.

In the modern world there are two extremes. In Western psychology, it is now fashionable to say that men and women are equal in everything and almost the same, and all gender roles that existed in historical times are artificially invented. It’s as if their parents are imposing gender behavior on children, buying, for example, dolls and pink frills for girls, and cars and blue pants for boys. I myself heard this theory from a psychology professor.

There is another extreme. Eastern philosophy, the now fashionable Vedas, the revived Slavs and Muslim societies, on the contrary, emphasize the difference between men and women. Girls are not recommended, and sometimes openly forbidden, to study, work, express their opinions, etc.

The truth, as usual, is in the middle. I believe that we need to take into account the natural differences between the male and female body and the experience of previous generations, but not forget about common sense. No one can cancel modern realities either.
The most important fact to accept is that a man and a woman are not the same, they are two different forms of life. It is also strange to talk about equality in this case. How can the Sun and the Moon, the earth and the sky, fire and water, black and white, sweet and spicy, be equal? One cannot be more important than the other, and cannot exist without the other.

Let's start with the fact that we have different body structures.
We have different DNA. American anthropologists recently made a shocking discovery by comparing the genes of a man, a woman and an ape. After conducting a unique experiment, they found that the difference in DNA between men and monkeys is no more than 1%. Whereas with women this difference is almost 5%.

We have different hormonal levels. A lot depends on the hormones produced by the body: weight, food preferences, lifestyle, mood, emotional background and much, much more.

We have different psychology, way of thinking, behavior and reaction to the world around us. We have different biological and karmic tasks.

And finally: we have different energy structures. I want to dwell on this in more detail in this article. To build harmonious relationships, you need to take this difference into account in order to be able to turn it to the benefit of yourself and your relationship.

Male and female chakras

Chakras can both receive energy and information flow and give it away. Any interaction between people occurs according to this principle: in each separate period of time, someone gives energy, someone receives it. Each partner must be able to give and receive.

In an ideal relationship, a man and a woman energetically complement each other: the man gives energy with some chakras, the woman with others. The division of chakras into male and female is conditional. In women, for example, women's chakras should be filled with more energy than men's chakras. For men it’s the opposite. Replenishment of energy occurs with harmonious interaction between partners.

Now let's look at all 7 main chakras in the light of the above.

Muladhara

A man provides his woman and her children with protection and security. What does a man protect his woman from? First of all, from any external danger: adverse weather conditions, wild animals, hooligans, oppressive society, hard work, etc. The building of external family ties should occur primarily through a man; a man resolves all conflicts with the outside world. For example, if a son breaks someone else’s window, then his father goes to sort it out. Even the front door should be opened by the owner, not the hostess (especially when it is not known who has come), because this is a connection with a potentially dangerous outside world.

This same chakra is responsible for sexual potency. A man wants and can, and a woman responds to this in return. The male seed gives life to offspring.

In case of chakra dysfunction:

In men. In the case when a woman cannot accept security from him, he becomes aggressive, hot-tempered, and jealous. All this leads to a general loss of strength, sexual potency leaves much to be desired. Therefore, it is important that a man takes responsibility for the survival of his family.

In the case when the chakra stops giving off energy, a man may cease to be a man in every sense of the word.

If the muladhara chakra works in a woman according to the masculine type (that is, it gives energy rather than receiving it), then such a woman develops masculine character traits and a masculine appearance. "Me and the horse, me and the bull..."

Svadhisthana

A woman helps a man achieve pleasure, with her he learns to experience the joy of life and learn the subtle facets of earthly pleasure. Men, as a rule, do not need anything beyond the bare essentials. He is ready to live in a cave, eat raw meat and sleep on the ground. A woman gives him comfort, delicious food, organizes holidays for him, dances erotic dances for him, caresses and hugs him, gives him sexual pleasure.

In case of chakra dysfunction:

If a man does not receive enough energy from his woman, he cannot fully realize himself in the upper chakras. That is, he remains incapable of achievements in society, career and finances. Often such men gain energy on the side and have mistresses.

In case of disturbances in the flow of energy, women develop all kinds of sexual diseases, including infertility, “freezing” of feelings, mood swings, and depression occur. Sometimes - promiscuity.

Manipura

Male chakra. A man gives energy.

A man has a stronger will. It is very important for him to be respected and his opinion listened to. He expects obedience from his woman, gives his wife social and material status, position in society. Earns money. He stands at the helm of the ship called “family” and sets the direction for the entire system.

In case of chakra dysfunction:

A man becomes greedy and cruel and at the same time is unable to take responsibility for his decisions.

Women develop a desire to keep everything and everyone under their control, increased power, careerism, and greed. Usually such women are lonely or have soft, pliable men next to them.

Anahata

Female chakra. The woman gives energy.

Emotionally, a woman is several times stronger than a man. The emotional background of men is quite flat and boring. And a woman can help him reveal the energies of mercy and tenderness with the help of her love and affection. A woman thus raises a man from the level of instincts to a higher level.

In case of chakra dysfunction:

If a woman cannot give her love, then she may experience resentment, inability to express her feelings, intolerance, and reluctance to live. All this ultimately leads to loneliness.

A man, having received less energy from his woman, feels unnecessary and unhappy. He does not have enough strength to strive somewhere, there is no incentive for further development.

If a man’s anahata begins to work according to the feminine principle, then he often loses his masculine attractiveness. The woman stops respecting him.

Vishuddha

Male chakra. A man gives energy.

Chakra of creativity and creation. It is very important for a man to leave his mark on history: to realize himself in society, build a career, and bring his ideas to life. And, of course, he will do this with great pleasure for his beautiful lady. A man expects his woman to support him and follow him through life. It is very important for him not to be afraid to express and defend his opinion in society.

In case of chakra dysfunction:

A man may experience self-doubt, inferiority complexes, self-criticism, inability to express his opinion and the impossibility of creative self-realization.

For a woman for whom this chakra works according to the masculine principle, her search for herself in society becomes more active; family, children, and home cease to matter to her. She listens and hears only herself, unable to follow her man. Any representative of the stronger sex will feel uncomfortable next to her.

Ajna

Female chakra. The woman gives energy.

Ajna is the so-called Third Eye. Women have much more developed intuition and abilities for magic and clairvoyance. Therefore, one of the main tasks of a woman in a couple is to share her feelings and fears with her husband in order to warn him in time against rash actions. For example: “I feel like this could be dangerous” or “I trust that you will succeed.”

In case of chakra dysfunction:

Men whose ajna works according to the feminine principle may also show signs of intuition and the ability to perform magic according to the feminine type (based on emotions and visions). He becomes infantile, begins to fly in the clouds, becomes detached from the real world, and becomes unable to make the right decisions.

If a woman has this chakra closed, then she cannot subtly feel her family. She will have a bias towards a logical, rational perception of the world. She will try to live according to plan. Spirituality is denied. This leads to the fact that the perception of the world becomes very narrow and limited.

Sahasrara

This is the chakra of connection with God, with the Cosmos. Defines spiritual values, development milestones, high goals, etc. This is spiritual self-realization, consciousness of the Absolute Truth, pure love for God without any admixture of sentimentality. Sahasrara becomes active when working on the lower chakras.

Most often, esotericists attribute this chakra to the male type. Since ancient times, it has been believed that a soul born in a female body is unable to achieve enlightenment due to its excessive attachment to earthly energies. A woman receives her energy from the Earth, while a man is more connected with the Cosmos. From ancient times to this day, esotericists believe that only a man can become a spiritual teacher, a woman can be a teacher or teacher, nothing more. In many religions, only a man can be a clergyman, and sometimes a woman is not even allowed into the temple. It is also believed that a woman can develop spiritually only by following the path paved by a man.

Why is energy imbalance dangerous?

What happens if a person's chakra is blocked and he cannot give enough energy to his partner. In this case, the partner is forced to strengthen the flow of energy in the chakra on his own, taking energy from other chakras.
For example, a man cannot provide for a woman (muladhara), a woman is forced to work hard and solve issues in a man's way. She takes the energy for this from the female chakras - svadhisthana and anahata. As a result, she becomes a woman with balls, but loses her attractiveness, sexuality, and ability to give and receive sexual pleasure. And her heart chakra turns out to be empty, and she is no longer able to love with all her heart.

And vice versa, if a woman does not give a man comfort, joy and love, then he is unable to realize himself in society. Often such men become couch potatoes, alcoholics or cheaters.

Girls are now raised on masculine energies, and boys on feminine energies. Here's a changeover.

Boys are looked after, showered with gifts, not allowed to make decisions, and protected from all difficulties. In many families, their beloved sons do not even have any household responsibilities.

Girls prioritize the importance of such things as study, career, social activities, achievements, success in society, financial independence, etc. Even in sex, women have now become more active than men.

For a woman, this is a path of self-destruction. All this causes euphoria at first. There is still a lot of strength for achievements, a lot is being achieved and even better than the boys’ former classmates. Intelligence, discipline, diligence and sex appeal allow young women to achieve success on many fronts. This is truly a victory march for feminism.

But by the age of 30-35, a woman gets tired of the constant struggle and already wants to be weak next to a strong man. The man, who may have been nearby all this time, has long been lying on the sofa, if he had not previously thought of running away or was not expelled as an unnecessary element of home decor. And sometimes there was no permanent man, because the priorities were different. These women shout on all forums and social networks that there are no real men left, forgetting that they themselves are no longer real women. It was around this time that many people began attending women’s training.

And if the situation with energies does not improve, after 40 years, complete emotional and physical exhaustion may occur. The woman does not feel alive, apathy and eternal fatigue set in.

What is the way out? First of all, it is knowledge from which skills already flow. Knowledge of how things really work. Knowledge about how we are born and what tasks each of us faces. Knowledge of how to most fully realize your innate qualities. Knowledge of how to achieve balance and harmony in personal relationships. And already having such knowledge, you can change your life and the lives of your loved ones.

We will talk about the exciting and relevant topic of relationships between men and women. Namely, we will talk about compatibility between a man and a woman from the position of the seven main energy centers (chakras). A person constantly interacts with the help of them with the entire world around him, including people. Based on this interaction, friendships, love and family relationships are formed.

It is also called marital compatibility, in view of the fact that whether it comes to marriage from the moment of acquaintance between a man and a woman depends on the energy center on which this relationship was based. In the future, in life together, happiness and mutual understanding depend on this. What will they bring to each other?

Gender compatibility according to seven main centers up...

Muladhara located in the coccyx area, masculine energy. The center is associated with sexual energy, relationships formed on the basis of this chakra will be spontaneous and windy, there will be only physical affection. When meeting for the first time, individuals of both sexes will feel a strong sexual attraction in the absence of any other interests in each other. The man is always in charge. As time passes, sexual interest fades away, relationships lose their edge and partners separate. They can last no more than two or three years and are unlikely to lead to marriage.

It happens something like this: we met at a disco and slept together that same evening, the night went well and everything but harmony in bed has nothing in common. Over time, due to unfulfilled expectations, mutual hostility may appear. Only if soul kinship is acquired through a conversation will this relationship move to another level.

Svadhisthana, the sexual center is located in the groin, just three centimeters below the navel. Feminine energy and therefore bound with pleasure and comfort. In such relationships, both partners create a comfortable living environment, striving for material well-being. A woman is looking for a strong, successful man, while he is a calm and thrifty woman who creates cozy comfort in their home. Such relationships are based only on the connection of financial well-being and there are no other interests in each other. There are no relationships as such, and rarely such an alliance can last more than seven years.

The fact is that the objects of desire and the tastes of partners should largely coincide. More often such acquaintances occur on hikes and exciting trips. The partners are connected by common interests: rock climbing, one sport, parachute jumping, etc... Or events may develop according to a different scenario. When a partner is chosen intuitively, based on the peace and comfort around him. A strong union is quite possible with the condition of greater interest in each other’s feelings and inner world.

Manipura located in the solar plexus area under the auspices of the Sun. There is will and intellect. Before these relationships arise, they are carefully thought out in advance. They have the same desire in family life to have a beautiful, cozy home and children. Women with such a consciousness prepare for family life; other than creating a family, they are not interested in other interests. Accordingly, men are looking for just such a woman - ready for a family. Given some disagreements, these alliances rarely diverge. A burning interest in starting a family keeps these partners together. The leadership place belongs to the man.

Usually two lovers have fun and have a wonderful time together. A charge of positive emotions, energy and inherent joy remain after their meetings. They always find ideas to show positivity, fighting boredom and routine together. An acquaintance can happen at a mutual friend's birthday, or through friends. The result is a reliable and harmonious union. However, it is dominated by emotions, which is not enough for a solid relationship. Partners need to discover common interests, set the highest goal and strive for it together. Relationships at this level can also arise under other circumstances: when the purpose of marriage is to occupy a higher position in society, or to obtain benefits - which is not a good motivation.

Anahata- heart center, located in the heart area. Her qualities are love and morality, so this relationship involves many common interests. Feminine energy dominates. They rejoice that they are engaged in joint achievements, moreover, they read each other’s thoughts. Exceptionally reliable relationships are built on the fact that the male is initially looking for a well-mannered, wise and caring mistress. While a woman relies on completely educated, successful, serious and reliable people. Old friends and acquaintances often come together; over time, they have had the opportunity to examine each other subtly.

In this case, everyone enters into relationships from a position of conscious choice, and not just attraction based on intuition. These relationships occur at work, in collective activities. These could be parties, communities, Schools, martial arts classes, public organizations from green to charities and foundations. Partners have many similar interests and life takes place in the same social circle and, often, environment. Since at work, especially in large companies, they will be able to be in one place and see each other briefly, and the surroundings may also be different. Partners experience pleasure in heart-to-heart conversations, talking about lofty matters. It is considered a strong union. Such a couple will quickly deal with problems that suddenly arise at other levels.

Vishuddha- throat center, located in the thyroid gland. Here are refined highest emotions, aesthetics and harmony. Compatibility of partners is based on the creative process and the mental and emotional kinship of two souls. Partners in this union appreciate the beauty of nature and life in general; they are people of art (Example: a man is a writer, and a woman is an artist). Their love is strong and sublime. Acquaintance occurs in their circles and partners at all levels complement each other. Their union is firmly based on creativity, and their love is sincere and pure, sacrificial and without self-interest. After time, their energies unite at the levels of other centers.

In this case, love is spiritual and captivating. These are truly happy and highly stable unions. As time passes, feelings fade away, but in this case they will remain friends and associates.

Ajna- "third Eye". Located in the medulla oblongata - the pituitary gland. Projected on the face in the center between the eyebrows, personifying mental function. The relationships in such a union are the most honest and pure, corresponding to the energy of the center on which they unite in purity and spirituality. Understanding between partners occurs at a deep level; in this union they are first of all partners and friends in life, and only then lovers. Relationships are based on knowledge of oneself and the world, perfection in complete harmony. Spouses learn the truth together and improve themselves.

Peter and Fevronia of Murom

When a man and woman join a family, it often seems to them that this is their conscious choice. In fact, they are controlled to a greater extent by the energy of the chakras. The chakra that is the leading chakra for a person (and this depends on the level of his consciousness, worldview, karma) and is involved in building relationships between future spouses. People are, as it were, “attracted” energetically at a certain chakra, and their marriage is completely (unless they start working on themselves and changing their consciousness) due to the capabilities of this level. The level of consciousness at which a family union rests determines its fate, the breakdown or preservation of relationships, the difficulties that await a married couple, the relationship of this family with the world and many other aspects of life.

This is how the Vedic lecturer O. Torsunov describes family relationships at different chakras (compilation from various lectures):

Family relationships on the first chakra:

The root chakra is associated with selfishness. The motivation of the spouses is sex, raw pleasure. The worldview of the spouses is such that only sexual compatibility is the basis of the family.
People quickly converge, and a strong emotional connection arises at the level of the root chakra. Energy goes to the genital centers. This couple has no other interests other than sex. In the process of family life, egoism increases.
Spouses get bored of each other within 1-3 years. They have no sense of duty or mutual understanding. As a result, many quarrels and scandals occur in the family. In many cases, the couple ends up in divorce. Meeting place: discos, bars, etc. Dating options, motives: a) disco love; b) a girl wants to get rid of loneliness, marries without love, out of necessity; c) both partners have had a blast, are getting acquainted with the idea of ​​having some kind of relationship, have little in common, meeting through an advertisement.
A woman can attract a man with her sexuality, but a man's love quickly fades. Complete exhaustion awaits such relationships, and this is a natural process. People become strangers to each other. The problem is not in one of the partners, but in the motive for creating the relationship. Marriage on the first chakra is the most unfavorable type of marriage.

Family relationships on the second chakra:

The motive for building a family on the second chakra is the creation of a “cozy nest.” Gradually compatibility comes at the coccygeal center.
The general desire for material goods - furniture, money, a dacha, a house. There is a common house, but there are no common topics for conversation. Everything gets boring quickly. There is no depth in the relationship. Appears.
Meetings are associated with activity, activity: work, group meetings, hiking, dancing, sports.
Harmony is limited only to common activities (often recreational).
The family is stronger than at the 1st chakra. But husband and wife live together relatively calmly for 6-7 years, after which they often grow cold towards each other.
Dating options, motives: a) common hobbies; b) the girl is looking for a quiet life, a protector; the guy is looking for a calm girl who considers him brave, reliable, and a protector.
Families built on two lower centers inevitably face problems.

Family relationships on the third chakra:

People of the third chakra strive for power and control. A woman is very selective in her choice, looking for comfort and coziness. Spouses can fulfill their duty and raise children together. But it is difficult for them to deeply understand each other, the nature of their partner, their thoughts.
A man experiences peace in the presence of a woman; a woman experiences joy from a man.
Dating options, motives: a) a girl learns to cook well from the very beginning, a man is looking for a woman who knows how to cook well; b) the girl is looking for a respected, prominent person; a man needs to be valued and respected. Both feel happiness from this; c) a woman is seduced by wealth, a man likes that he is loved for his achievements.
The motive for creating such relationships claims stability. But if interests change, misunderstandings may arise. Relationships depend more on the man.
In the next life, when they meet, the partners change places.

Family relationships on the fourth chakra:

At this chakra, there is understanding and peace in relationships. Spouses understand each other's thoughts.
To create such a family you need to work on yourself. In Vedic culture, from the age of 7, girls were taught to understand and show feminine nature (sensitivity, caring, kindness, patience, meekness, etc.).
Places: general company, find each other in conversation. Common goals. First, friendship arises; they agree on good character traits. Strong relationships at the level of the heart center. A woman has the power to save her family. A man influences the external environment to support the family.
Dating options, motives: a) a man is looking for a girl with a good upbringing, who knows how she should behave, can consciously choose (asks friends about her, gets to know her family), relationships on a family basis; b) a man occupies a fairly high position in society, his good character qualities bear fruit, and has good connections in society; a woman chooses an ideal, a serious, reliable person; c) a man wants to find the most calm, charming, harmonious woman with an ideal character - in this case, the motive comes from the man.
Guaranteed stable family life.

Family relationships on the fifth chakra:

People of the fifth chakra are characterized by refined activity. Acquaintance takes place in literary societies, theaters, conservatories, etc. Subtle, sublime feelings. Closeness, harmony, love.
Such relationships are impossible without working on yourself.
People of art. Life is like a song. Sublime, self-sacrificing, poetic love, close to selflessness. Trembling happiness, uniqueness of relationships, feeling of happiness next to each other. Marriage is not about emotions.
The relationship is not intimate from the very beginning. There is a gradual rapprochement. The decision to live together comes only after connection at the solar plexus level.
Dating options, motives: a) the tendency of both to search for beauty and harmony, using intuition and creativity; b) deep understanding of beauty from birth (very intelligent families).
Several lives can be together.

Family relationships on the sixth chakra:

A very sublime, deep relationship. Spouses understand each other's thoughts. Honesty and loyalty at the highest level.
The main asceticism is chastity: girls and boys did not communicate with each other until a certain age (in Vedic times). Separate education was carried out. A man without communicating with women has the power to develop the best qualities of character. Without communicating with men, a girl can retain the purity and knowledge given to her from birth.
Lack of sexual intercourse before marriage. A very serious approach to the decision to start a family. Deep understanding of the world. From the very beginning, man and woman are comrades, capable of jointly comprehending knowledge.
Dating options, motives: a) choice based on character traits; Chastity is important for a woman; b) rapprochement on the basis of self-improvement with a gradual increase in harmony. Gradual rapprochement at all levels.

Family relationships on the seventh chakra:

People consciously go to God. Such a marriage is very rare. As a result, the spouses go together to God, to the spiritual world. Compatibility at the level of the mind. They engage in spiritual practices together.
Dating options, motives: a) a girl is looking for a mentor; b) the girl is attracted by the man’s mission, supports him, wants to be his assistant; c) rapprochement occurs as a result of joint development.
There is a gradual understanding of the need to be with each other. The joint movement towards God always remains the main goal of life.

The lower the level at which the spouses were initially attracted into a couple, the more difficult and less likely it is that they will have harmony on the chakras above. A higher initial level of attraction gradually generates harmony at the chakras below.

This audio lecture by Torsunov O.G. partly (from start to time 1 hour 04 minutes 30 seconds) is dedicated to the topic of creating a family at different chakras (levels of consciousness):

LOVE IS THE BRIGHTEST AND STRONGEST FEELING IN THE WORLD!

However, it can be noted that love between a man and a woman often, especially in our time, for some reason, after a short period of pleasure, ends in unbearable suffering. Why does this happen, what is the reason for this... The Vedas give an accurate and unambiguous answer.

It all lies in the essence of the question, namely: in which psycho-energy centers compatibility occurred between a man and a woman.

Now we will analyze how relationships between a man and a woman are formed as a result of compatibility at different levels of human consciousness. The higher a person’s consciousness is developed, the more sublime love he is capable of.

By nature, we cannot live without love. Therefore, we naturally love each other according to our capacity to love.

Harmony between spouses can occur in 7 mental centers.
In order to have good and stable relationships in the family, it is important, at the moment of meeting, to catch yourself thinking about what feeling towards this person motivates you. Only at the beginning of acquaintance can you refuse to deepen the relationship. Gradually they become so strong that, even understanding the meaninglessness of everything that happens, it is impossible to change anything.

It is very important to understand that when creating a family, young people should not look at how a person behaves at the moment of acquaintance, he can behave ideally, this is how nature works - a young man is always very good towards the girl he likes.
It is necessary to find out how he behaves in relation to the people around him, how he fulfills his duties, and, most importantly, it is necessary to understand his motives for starting a family - what he understands by the word happiness. All this also applies to choosing a bride.

The biggest secret in choosing a close friend is the motive for marriage. That is, what a person wants from you. We need to understand what he wants. “Motive” means “love”, that is, in what center is his love towards you. In accordance with this, a certain type of harmony is created between spouses, which practically does not change throughout life. Everything can change if the relationship does not move to a spiritual platform, which is extremely rare, but everyone should strive to cleanse their relationships with loved ones as much as possible.
So we have psychic centers or subtle body centers of the mind. This means that the tendency of consciousness to live by certain interests is fixed at some level of our body.

There are 7 chakras or psychic centers.

1. Lower or coccygeal center. Responsible for selfishness and sexual relations. Relationships are built on a bodily platform.
2. Umbilical center. Located just below the navel. Responsible for fear, fearlessness, self-preservation. Relationships are built at the level of the body and prana.
3. Solar plexus center. Located in the solar plexus area. Responsible for digestion and a feeling of comfort. Relationships are built at the level of prana and feelings.
4. Heart center. Located at the level of the heart. Responsible for human behavior. Relationships are built on the level of feelings
5. Throat center. Located in the apple area. Responsible for emotions. Relationships are built at the level of feelings and mind.
6. Frontal center. Located in the center of the forehead. The brainiac answers. Relationships are built on a mental platform.
7. Crown. Located in the crown area. Responsible for the mind. Relationships develop at the level of the mind.

For example, someone wants to live with the body. He likes to enjoy the body: have sex, eat, sleep. Accordingly, such a young man will be attracted to a girl with a developed body and bodily functions.
Some people like to enjoy prana. He likes to run, jump, and play sports. In this case, you may like an energetic nature.
Some people want to live through feelings. He likes poetry and art. In this case, the young man will fall in love with a girl with refined feelings.
Some people like to live with the help of their mind. This means that such a person cultivates a good character, he tries to subjugate his body, prana, and feelings. He will be pleased to deal with a girl of good behavior.
And someone tries to live with the help of reason. Such a person studies what is good and what is bad, studies various philosophies. In this case, love will arise on the basis of spiritual practice, self-improvement, and purification of consciousness.
Love is always a manifestation of spirituality, our deepest nature, but it can be defiled by selfishness. The baser the love, the more this defilement is manifested, and thus harmony arises at a lower level of consciousness.
All human inclinations are manifested from birth, and psychic centers are very difficult to change. At any level of consciousness, upon contact with one of the psychic centers, there is a different understanding of what happiness and love are. This means that the rapprochement between a man and a woman will occur at one of these levels, and relationships will be built in accordance with this...

The main secret of harmonious relationships between men and women.

Harmonious relationships between a man and a woman are the foundation of happiness. Today we will look at the sacred secrets of the relationship between men and women. This is a very important topic, your happiness, success, well-being and health will depend on its understanding. Many women, having read an article about women’s lot and learned that in relationships with men they are “giving,” they were upset. I guess? Of course, you thought that this was unfair: some people only need to give, and others only need to receive. My dear readers, I want to reassure you. You will only need to give what you have in abundance by the will of nature, and for this happiness and prosperity will come to you. Everything that is created by the Creator is always harmonious, you just need to understand and accept this truth.

Read this information several times until you have a deep understanding of this important issue. Once you realize it, you will be able to build a harmonious relationship with your soul mate. In addition, many are interested in the question of how to open the chakras, because our well-being in all aspects of existence depends on the degree of their opening. So, implementing this knowledge in life is one of the ways to open the chakras and personal growth.

We already know that the Creator divided man into 2 halves to accelerate the development of humanity. To ensure that these halves always strive for each other, a very wise mechanism was invented: In women, the sexual energy chakra is always filled with energy, but in men it is always hungry and only a woman can feed it. Therefore, men cannot live and develop fully without women. They need a Muse. Why is the sexual chakra always full of energy in women? Yes, because she needs to attract a man, feed her, inspire her, conceive, bear, give birth to and raise offspring. Therefore, a woman is closely connected with the Earth, which feeds her with this powerful energy.

It is precisely due to the fact that women always have a lot of sexual energy after birth as a woman, a woman can be considered self-sufficient. But don’t rush to rejoice and think that you can live well without a man. You can! But life will be more difficult, and there will be no true happiness without them, because the soul will hurt from unfulfilled debt to the Universe.

Precisely because a man is a transformer of the World, his sexual chakra is not limited to one woman. A man should always be full of this energy. Only in this case can it develop and produce offspring. One woman will lack energy, another will “fill it up.” In addition, a man is responsible for the number of descendants in the reproduction of humanity. Therefore, he constantly has a huge number of active sperm in his sperm. All these factors make a man sexually insecure. A man is polygamous by nature. If you want to have a faithful companion, feed him well, do not manipulate your superiority. You are not the only one in this world with such a gift.

A woman’s sexual chakra is unidirectional; if she has chosen a man, then only the flow of energy is directed towards him. In women, only one egg matures once a month. A woman is responsible to the Universe for the quality of her offspring. Therefore, she always naturally has a sufficient supply of energy and should not be concerned about finding it. The woman is monogamous. The issue of female infidelity does not lie in the realm of energy. This problem lies in the field of psychology, and we are not considering it today. This is a separate topic. But the man will immediately feel that the woman has redirected her energy from him to another, no matter how she disguises herself. After all, the power source is interrupted. A woman can feed one man with energy, even if she has sexual relations with several.

When a man and a woman form a union based on attraction, their biofields unite, mutually reinforcing each other. They create a common energy structure, enhancing the potential capabilities of everyone. But in order for this system to be stable and a harmonious union to be created, a clear distribution of functions must be manifested in the work of energy centers. Let's look at this schematically for a better understanding.harmonichnye otnosheniya 2

According to the first chakra, a man must be a giver. He always has this energy center filled with sufficient energy to implement the tasks assigned to him in this incarnation. This is his source of physical strength. A woman in this center has only enough energy to survive. Therefore, a man must provide a woman with proper living conditions, comfort, and protection.

Please note: it is in the projection of this chakra that a man has a protruding organ (penis), and a woman has a depression. People say: “A man must build a house, plant a tree and raise a son.” Moreover, a man gives a woman not the energy itself, but the material conditions of life created by him thanks to this energy; he is, after all, a transformer of the World. Feminine energy is quite enough to improve the family nest built by a man.

If a man does not provide a woman with the necessary protection and conditions for a normal life, she must run away from such a man as quickly as possible and as far away as possible. Unspent energy will make him aggressive, jealous, he will try to spend it on sexual pleasures on the side or become addicted to alcohol. The chakra will be blocked and in the future male infertility is expected (there will be few sperm and they will be weakly active for full fertilization), early impotence. Do you need this?

According to the second chakra, a woman should be giving. In this center it is redundant. A woman gives this energy to a man not only through sex (although the largest portion of energy is given through sex), through caresses, hugs, kisses, even when thinking about her lover, wherever he is at that time. If a woman does not want to give enough energy to a man, then her excess energy in this energy center will lead to the development of gynecological diseases (cysts, fibroids, cancer) or nymphomania. And the man will have to look for the “battery” on the side. By the way, in the projection of this center, a woman has a bulge - her tummy. If it so happens that a woman is lonely and has no one to give her sexual energy to, she must raise it to the next chakras and begin to realize it through them. At the same time, the woman will eliminate excess energy, remain healthy and achieve great success in society. But at the same time, she should not forget about the mechanism of more rational harmony. A woman shouldn't be lonely for long.

According to the third chakra, a man must be a giver. But he can be giving only if he receives a sufficient amount of sexual energy from the woman. Then his third energy center opens, his will, determination, assertiveness awakens, and he rises socially. This promotes professional growth, career, power, honor, respect. Such a man brings wealth to the house and can fulfill the desires of women beyond the norms of simple survival: beautiful furniture, clothes, jewelry, a car, vacation, etc. This is how he pays the woman for the energy and prospects for development given to him. By the way, men have a convex abdomen in the projection of this chakra. In the East they believe that the larger the belly, the richer and more generous the person.

If a man does not pay a woman, then excess energy and pride lead him to greed, cruelty, vindictiveness and, as a result, to diseases of the gastrointestinal tract.

The woman must give energy to the fourth chakra. After all, in her heart center the source of divine love does not dry up. Moreover, the more she gives this energy, the more she receives from the Creator and, in addition, receives various gifts of fate. A woman should give the energy of love not only to a man. She must transmit it into the surrounding space. This is especially relevant at the present time, this will be its mission (read here). Women sometimes ask: “How can you give the energy of love if you don’t love your husband?” If you don’t love, but for some reason you want to preserve the union, then love your husband as a friend, as a brother, as an eldest son. Only then will a woman fulfill her duty to the Universe.

A man’s heart center will open slightly and the energy of love will reveal such qualities as mercy, compassion, empathy, he will learn to love and then this power will free him from the power of instincts. A man who loves at heart can no longer be unfaithful. In the era of Aquarius, marriages without love will quickly fall apart, but those with love will be encouraged.

A woman gives the energy of love in different ways: through the biofield, through a kind and gentle look, through an inner smile (read here), through a kind word, sympathy, empathy, forgiveness. She charges everything she touches with the energy of love with love in her heart. She lovingly gives gifts to a man with her own hands, lovingly prepares food for him, etc. When apart, she can mentally send this energy to the ends of the earth.

The fifth chakra is where a man should give. By the way, men have an Adam's apple on their necks, women do not. Here is a hint from Nature itself about who should give. If a woman generously bestows her husband with her inexhaustible energy of love, then the man’s throat chakra opens and his creative abilities awaken. So a man of realization in the first energy center will make a strong stool for a woman, now he will make for her an elegant chair with curved legs.

In addition, it will give the woman a wonderful harmonious relationship and the woman will not have to waste her energy on building these relationships using the advice of psychologists. Relationships will develop almost automatically. And the woman will be able to direct the freed energy to the development of creativity in herself

As these five centers open, 2 higher centers will begin to open for both, which will give them more opportunities for development and personal growth. In addition, with such a harmonious union, the emotional shell will be filled with the highest energies of joy and love, and due to this, its upper part will expand. It is she who assimilates the energy of abundance coming from the Cosmos in much greater quantities. And the energy of abundance brings with it the energies of love, success, happiness, health and prosperity. Such a union is simply doomed to the full realization of all its aspirations.harmonichnye otnosheniya 4

Let your man become the king, then you will become the queen. And mind you, without much effort, simply fulfilling the duties assigned to you by Nature. Nature has given you everything for this, just use it in the right direction.

If a man and a woman, having formed a union, do not correctly perform the exchange mechanism, then an inharmonious union is formed. Let's see what it brings to both of them. Here I want to make a small addition to the question of the structure of the chakra system (read here). Between the second and first chakras, as well as between the third and fourth, there are safety valves for the transfer of energy from one center to another in case of emergency. For example, if a man does not have a woman for a long time, then some of the energy from the first energy center will move to the second for the normal functioning of the body.

If it happens that a man is lazy and does not want to strain to give back to the first chakra, then the woman will be forced to deal with issues of ensuring living conditions herself. Her natural energy will not be enough for this, and she will take energy from the sexual chakra, leaving a small amount there only for childbirth. Then this woman will begin to lose her sex appeal and will cease to be attractive to men, her libido will begin to wane, various kinds of inflammatory diseases of the genital organs will begin, and menstrual irregularities will begin. The husband will transfer some of the energy from the first to the second and begin to “walk”, because his own wife is not able to feed him with sexual energy. There is no need to talk about further growth and development of both; there will be practically none. This is the most dead-end situation.

Therefore, when choosing a partner, look not at a pleasant appearance and figure, not at beautiful compliments, but at whether he can provide you with conditions for a normal life and protection. For this is the basis of the foundations of a harmonious union. This is the fundamental secret of harmony.harmonichnye otnosheniya 5

If you do not give your man enough energy to rise and open his third chakra, or if the man does not provide fulfillment for you in the third center, then you will have to realize all your dreams yourself, rise in society yourself, and suck up the energy for this from the heart center and sexual chakra. For inappropriate and prolonged use of the energy of love, the source of its supply will be covered. You will realize your ambitions, but you will become callous and heartless. Endless scandals will begin in the family, finding out who is cooler. Soon the heart will begin to malfunction, and then diseases will begin. Even having achieved a high position in society and achieving high earnings, such a woman is unlikely to feel happy. Her soul will ache, because she did not fulfill her most important duty, did not become a source of love on Earth. In addition, in order to rise in society at the modern level, it is necessary to play by male rules, so such a woman wastes her femininity and gains masculine energies. She herself does not realize herself as a woman, and her man gets stuck at a certain level. It turns out that there is a queen, but instead of a king there is a page nearby, or he runs away to the woman who is ready to make him king.

In this case, the energy shell is burdened with low feelings and emotions and expands downwards. Such a structure cannot receive a lot of energy of abundance from the Cosmos for nothing. Everything has to be conquered through great effort, waste of energy and at the cost of health. In such a union there are no conditions for everyone’s development and personal growth. Such a union either needs correction or must break up for the sake of the happiness of both. To maintain such a union, great efforts are needed from both and the help of an experienced psychologist or energy therapist.